What is being pessimistic and how to see the bright side of life? – Blog

We always try to be optimistic about life, but when the difficulty increases, it’s hard to see the bright side of life, isn’t it? There are people who even try to convince us that something is not as bad as it seems, but we are blinded by frustration, anxiety and disappointment. What is pessimistic?

Optimism is an attitude that needs to be trained, as is calm. If you have a pessimistic attitude on a daily basis, you won’t be able to change it when you need it most. Pessimism even generates a certain comfort, because when we talk about what is wrong or what can go wrong in our lives, people comfort us with words of affection and encouragement. But that doesn’t solve our problems. Actions solve our questions. And acting with confidence is necessary for success.

Ligia Chizolini has some tips for you to learn to be more optimistic on a daily basis:

What is being pessimistic and how to deal with it?

• Avoid commenting on negative events or events that cause discomfort in your life and that of others. “The more force, the more we talk about these facts, the greater the negative effect on us”, explains the astrocentro tarologist. “The more we comment on situations, we increase the negative vibes that are around us. This implies that even an evil or something bad that could already be in the past and well resolved remains with us longer,” she continues.
• Focus on the good things and just talk about them. In the beginning it is difficult to change this habit, but Ligia guarantees: “With time and practice, it becomes automatic and your life changes for the better, because your energy will be vibrating positivism”.
• Try to have a more realistic look at life. Analyze both the negatives and the positives of a situation and, especially if it’s a problem, focus on the solution and not on finding a culprit.
• Stop judging yourself and judging others. It only draws attention to the negative and will not add anything to your life.
• Take a relaxing herbal bath at the end of the day to calm and clear your mind and negative energies. Rue, basil and lavender are great options.
• Get in touch with nature whenever you’re feeling down. Take a walk, cool down and observe the world around you. There is a lot of good stuff to be appreciated, just know how to look!

The pessimist, in addition to having more problems than the optimist, as he gets the feeling that everything happens to him, also becomes an unpleasant person for others, especially at work. There is no reason to be pessimistic. Just want to look at the world differently and your luck will turn around.

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