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Loving sweetening: how it works, effects, symptoms and more

Sweetening love is a topic that arouses great interest in people who practice spells, spells, who are spiritual or in the midst of witchcraft. For some, the term can be a little obscure, with lashings being more famous; for others, the name is already better known.

Therefore, in this article we will explain in detail what sweetening love is, how it is seen in the different religions of African origin in Brazil, its positive and negative aspects, consequences, how to do it and if we should do it. Keep reading to find out more!

First of all, it is necessary to understand how sweetening works, what are its aspects and what different spiritualist groups can think of it. So as not to go on too long, in this article we will only address the views of Umbanda and Candomblé regarding sweetening love, but know that this is a practice that goes beyond these religions.

Including several other and different sympathetic or magical practices, such as some spiritualist Christians, pagans, traditional or eclectic witches, in Hoodoo and much more. With that explained, check below for more details on how loving sweetening works.


In Umbanda, sweetening is recommended for couples who are going through a moment of crisis or cooling off in their relationship, in order to calm their tempers, or else, to rekindle the couple’s fire. The work is done through requests to the orixás or other entities such as Oxum, Ogun, Iemanjá, pombagiras, guides and eres.

An initial consultation with a Mãe or Pai de Santo is recommended to find out if sweetening will be favored in the spiritual environment and what is the best time to do it. It is also emphasized that the work is done only with the accompaniment of the saint’s mother or father, as they have more experience in dealing with instruments and spirits directly.

It is necessary to confirm that no negative intent is behind the pursuit of sweetening (such as seeking to bind the person to you against their will); and that both parties involved are aware of and in agreement with the work being done.


In Candomblé, it is possible to seek the help of a father or mother to carry out an ebó (a ritual, an offering to the orixás, asking them to balance excesses or lacks of energy in life) with the aim of preventing energetic attacks on the relationship, or even, to reharmonize your energies, favoring love.

However, Candomblé remains very careful against bindings, which they see with a bad eye for, according to their understanding, interfering with the free will of the target, which can have major negative consequences for the person carrying out the work.


The main positive aspects of sweetening involve the person’s search for harmony, affection and attention in their relationship, as well as increasing their chances with another person with whom they intend to relate.

As it is a job that involves protecting negative energies and increasing positive ones, it can also be a good way to increase the couple’s protection.


Sweetening, unlike loving bonding, is not loaded with negative aspects, as it does not interfere with the sweetened person’s free will, never forcing them to feel or do anything towards the other. However, one point to keep an eye on involves the increase in attention received.

If the sweetening is done on impulse, due to a quick, distorted or even obsessive passion on the part of the person doing the work, these feelings can soon change or disappear, while the attention called for by the sweetening can persist for longer, in which now it’s you who don’t want her anymore. Therefore, reflect well on your own feelings and intentions before performing the spell.

Having understood how it works, now you need to understand what sweetening is for. As obvious as it may seem, its applications can reach aspects of a relationship that we do not expect at first glance. Keep reading to find out more!


Amorous sweetening serves mainly to “sweeten” our image in the eyes of the desired or beloved person, making them more likely to act in a caring and interested way towards us. For this reason, sweetening is commonly used by those who seek to facilitate the path to someone’s conquest.

Still, know that sweetening is different from lashing. It will favor how the person sees you and feels about you, but that is not a guarantee that they will decide to start a relationship.

Sweetening here serves as an aid, not a certainty. All the rest of the work of conquering and creating firm loving feelings in each other depends only on yourself and your attitudes.


In a similar way to conquest, sweetening can favor someone who seeks to bring the lost relationship back. However, the same warning applies: this is a job that will change how the person sees you, making them more open to tender feelings, but it does not bring any guarantee that they will decide to have a loving relationship with you again.

Still others work on sweetening their love life in general rather than a specific person, thus energizing them to attract new loves back into their lives, improving their image and the potency of their tender gestures in the eyes of potential others. partners around you.


Loving sweetening is often used when a relationship goes through a problematic phase, either with frequent fights, or even with a cooling in the couple’s communication and gestures. In these cases, the meaning of “sweetening” becomes almost literal, as the person doing the work seeks to regain the energy, sweetness, caresses of a quieter moment in the relationship.

By making yourself and the other sweeter, the ground is more conducive for good feelings and a strengthened relationship, thus transforming it into a more harmonious relationship.


Considering that sweetening is used to “sweeten” the desired or loved person and, in this way, also harmonize your relationship, another consequence that this work can bring is to protect your relationship against the envy of others.

Many of us know that the strongest effects of envy and the evil eye affect those who feel weakened, with low self-esteem, confidence, emotional distance from their loved ones, and those who do not feel secure in life and position in which they are.

Therefore, when a relationship is sweetened and, therefore, harmonized, this change in the couple’s feelings also modifies their energy to a stronger one, which will create a natural barrier against any people who envy the relationship.

Understanding what it is and how it works, what would then be the symptoms of an ongoing sweetening of love? Check below for details!


The most notable effect of sweetening is certainly how the person starts to look at you differently. This could include either more tender physical glances, showing attention, curiosity or interest.

It is also very common (or mainly) for a change in how that person understands you as an individual, starting to notice your positive points that he had not seen before.


The second most common effect is a change in how the sweetened person talks to the person who did the work, usually using more tender, caring words and a more peaceful tone of voice.

In the cases of people who were more explosive, a common effect leans more towards attenuation than a “full improvement”, going more towards neutral and calm points, rather than very affectionate.


Sweetening also results in more frequent petting by the sweetened person. She may begin to praise more those who did the work, pay more attention to what she says, smile more. If they already have a romantic relationship, it is common to caress more or bring more gifts, prepare favorite foods and other similar attitudes.

This occurs because sweetening neutralizes the bad energies around the relationship of both, an influence that, when withdrawn, can make the other more likely to be affectionate.


One of the unexpected effects of sweetening is apparently random situations that put those who did the work and those who were sweetened in contact, sometimes even in a way that makes them communicate or act together.

This is a result of the energies of harmony and attraction that have been activated between the two people (attraction in this case mainly in the sense of making one notice and get closer to the other). So be prepared for more dates or collaboration opportunities with the person you want to sugarcoat.


Above all, you must remember that sweetening not only is not a guarantee of a firm and lasting relationship, or that the person will take some physical, romantic or sexual initiative with you, but it should never be the only resource in action. for things to flow well in the relationship.

For this, everyone involved should strive to resolve any problems they have, improve their communication and maintain mutual respect so that they do not need to depend on sugarcoats to stay together.

Even with all the explanations above, we may still have doubts about sweetening. Therefore, just below we have added the most common questions on the subject, such as the time to see the effect, how long it lasts, what are the consequences and a final reflection on sweetening in general. Keep reading to find out more!


When the spell will start to take effect depends on many factors: the person who did it, whether they expressed their intentions in the right way, when they did it, how, with what instruments, feeling it in what way, whether or not they asked for it. help from a deity or entity, if the request was accepted, etc.

In general, it can be expected that the first effects will begin to manifest within 20 or 30 days. If it takes more than two months and there is no noticeable change, then your work has probably not paid off and, if you think it is necessary, it is worth trying again.


It is virtually impossible to put an expiration date on a spiritual or magical work. As well as how soon it will start to take effect, it all depends on countless small factors that add up.

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