Learn ALL About Lilith in Cancer and Lilith in House 4 ♋🌘

If you like astrology and the influence that stars have on our lives, you may have heard of Lilith in Cancer and Lilith in House 4. To satisfy your curiosity, we suggest that you follow our series about Lilith in the Astral Map to know more aspects and characteristics.

In this way, you will be able to maneuver possible problems and understand a little more about yourself.

By the way, if you still don’t know which sign and house Lilith occupies in your life, find out by making your birth chart here with us. In addition to having your chart complete, you can talk to one of our astrology experts for guidance.

And if you already study this art and want to specialize, we also have a course on birth chart interpretation that is barbaric and very easy to understand.

Now, let’s discover the characteristics of Cancer and the 4th House!

Lilith in Cancer is identified in the birth chart through the position of the moon. That is, when she is farthest from Earth, alluding to Lilith’s exile when she decided to face Adam (and God) to no longer be submissive.

Once its placement is identified, it is possible to determine the sign and house in which Lilith acts. In this way, it is possible to identify points where we can (and should) improve.

When Lilith is in Cancer, it is clear that her influence encompasses the sentimental and family area. In other words, the repressed emotional issues accumulate and become a very painful problem.

On the one hand, we will have a person who represses his feelings and does not want to be sensitive. On the other hand, we have the same person condemning any submission and emotional dependence on others.

In this way, we identify Lilith in Cancer in these details that involve repression and rebellion in relation to feelings. Furthermore, another striking feature is the feeling of abandonment or lack of love for the family, even if this is not true.

This feeling of being unloved, wanted and wanted only makes Lilith in Cancer hide her feelings more and more. In doing so, the buildup can result in extreme verbal aggression and even anger.

All this resentment is reversed in:

• Difficulty in expressing feelings;
• Not being able to cry the sorrows;
• Communication difficulties;
• Attack the feelings of others.

When there is imbalance with Lilith in Cancer

When the person cannot find balance in the sentimental field and cannot express their anxieties, this reflects on the relationship.

First, as we have already mentioned, there is the issue of making fun of what others feel. Then there is the internal battle not to be submissive to the feelings of others.

While this feeling “fruit salad” is happening, at the same time there are other sensitive issues related to the family. When not having her feelings respected – or if she herself doesn’t respect what she feels – she usually withdraws and doesn’t express herself anymore.

In addition to making communication difficult, the partner and even the children can be abandoned. And this is extremely painful for those who have Lilith in Cancer.

Another issue responsible for breakups, both in romantic relationships and in the family environment, is overprotection. When freedom is restricted for the sake of protection, Lilith in Cancer withdraws and leaves her partner or family talking to herself.

At that time, she puts herself first and seeks an enriching experience that welcomes her the way she deserves.

Love and sex

When in balance, Lilith in Cancer handpicks her partners:

• amorous;
• sensitive;
• Who value friends and family;
• That promote acceptance.

With partners like this, Lilith promotes unforgettable sex, full of love and affection. Very intense and striking, Lilith in Cancer wants emotional comfort even at bedtime, sparing no praise and pouring herself out to her partner.

When there are disagreements, the tendency is to seek partners who are rude, unstable, in a bad mood and who do emotional blackmail. Perfect recipe for disaster, isn’t it?

To better illustrate what we’re talking about, here’s a brief analysis by youtuber Kara Yashen.

Lilith in the 4th house: what does it mean?

The signs signify potency and energetic tendencies that are pre-established in our lives. Houses mean the areas of life where this energy is experienced with intensity.

This is why Lilith in the 4th house is so similar to Lilith in Cancer. But nothing prevents you from having Lilith in Aries and in the 4th house, it all depends on your Astral Map.

Let’s get to the features! Those who have Lilith in the 4th house, experienced in their life a certain emotional helplessness in childhood. Whether from family members or friends, this helplessness affects her deeply and reflects on her choices in the future.

This emotional omission prevents those who have Lilith in the 4th from being able to express themselves and relate properly.

There is almost a constant emptiness that accompanies and affects his sentimental development. And this is due to the fear of relating again and suffering all that pain.

When the person who has Lilith in the 4th house is emotionally balanced, he struggles to build a completely different reality from the one he had and which made him suffer. Thus, if she already has a family, she seeks to build a home that is the opposite of a patriarchal home.

What happens when the past still hurts?

Furthermore, when the past experience was very traumatic, there is the possibility of her building a new life away from the place where she suffered, being in another city, state and even country.

Another characteristic that often appears is intolerance of domestic submission. The partner who is with someone who has Lilith in the 4th house must always keep in mind that the house belongs to both, therefore, the service belongs to both.

Finally, when the past can be overcome and Lilith is welcomed with all love and respect, the relationship flows in a peaceful and very affectionate way. In fact, all this affection reflects during sex, which is incredible and practically shameless.

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We hope that this text has clarified your doubts and if you need help, count on us.

A big hug and surrender to your feelings! ♋✨