How to Make a Relationship Work: 15 Successful Attitudes!

Want to know what you need to do for your relationship work out forever? See the tips that Maicon Paiva, Spiritualist and Specialist in Couples Union, prepared for you!

Find a nice person, fall in love and have a healthy, happy relationship.

This is the desire of the vast majority of women but the path for all this to happen is not always easy.

to do the relationship work out, you need to be calm and play around. This journey is long, but having love and respect is half the battle, isn’t it?

If you’re here it’s because you want to know how to make a relationship workbut there is no magic formula.
It all depends on you and the person you love. To work, you have to accept each other’s flaws and forget the hurts that remain after arguments and fights.

Remember: all couples fight, but you can’t allow it to become a routine between you, otherwise your relationship will tend to fail, unfortunately.

Attitudes you must have for a relationship to work

How to make a relationship really work?

Every relationship has its particularities, but some tips can be applied whenever you think about how to make a relationship work. Check the 15 attitudes of success for any relationship and succeed with your love:

Don’t put your personal life aside

Remember when you studied math? There was a subject called Set. We can make a really cool analogy for a relationship.

You are Set A and your love Set B. Each one represents a person of the couple, with their personal characteristics and relationships with family and friends. The part that intersects, meaning these circles come together, is your relationship.

This means that your relationshipwhether dating, engagement or marriage it is a joint part of your lives and not your whole life.

You will be in a relationship and share much of your life with your partner, but the other part is individual and yours.

You still have your career, your friendships, your goals. Don’t let them go. You need to keep living your life.

ATTENTION: You must follow with your dreams and goals. Making sacrifices in the name of a relationship may be necessary from time to time, but not always.

Don’t condition your happiness on your partner

Being in a relationship means sharing your life with your partner. You only share what you already have, your partner can help you be happier, but you can’t do it alone.

You need to be happy with your life. and realize that he is a part of her, but not responsible for everything.

Likewise, he is not responsible for your unhappiness, if your relationship is no longer what it used to be and you are no longer happy, talk!

Don’t be afraid to expose your feelings to improve the situation.

control jealousy

The basis of every good relationship is trust. Jealousy happens, but you cannot be dominated.

If you think your lover is capable of cheating or if he has already given you reason to think so, stop and think about your relationship again.

Did he really give reasons or are you the one who’s overthinking it?

Now, if your partner has never given reasons and you think he’s not capable of it, don’t let jealousy arise. Put your insecurities aside and talk to your love whenever you feel uncomfortable about something. Dialogue is fundamental in these cases.

Deal with problems always with maturity

Don’t say things without thinking or have fights with name-calling and yelling with your partner. Having maturity is very important in a relationship and understanding that problems will always exist is essential.

Don’t despair whenever something gets out of hand.

As we already said: take it easy.

If the problem is between the two of you. Nothing better than conversation.

Your partner needs to understand why something is bothering you in order to deal with the problem. In the same way, try to understand the reasons that bother you and discuss everything maturely and as adults.

Don’t be afraid to expose your feelings

One of the biggest problems in modern relationships is the fear of exposing yourself. Denying or belittling your feelings for fear of being rejected can be very damaging to a relationship.

Talk to your partner about love, trust, plans for the future. The relationship will only work if both are on the same page and it is necessary to understand the goals of each one in this relationship. Don’t be afraid to come out and listen to what he has to say.

Conversation helps make the relationship work

Don’t create expectations that don’t exist

Every relationship needs conversation, we’ve already talked about it and we’re going to hit that key a lot!

Imagine if you want to get married and he doesn’t. What’s up? How to resolve this impasse? Conversation!

You need to say what you want, but you must also understand what your partner wants. What would be his reasons for not wanting to get married? Sometimes it’s just a matter of time…

Don’t fight over everyday nonsense

There are fights and fights. There is no need to argue over small things. Leave the fights for something more serious.

Tell me, what’s the point of fighting because the control is gone or because the towel is wet on the bed?

Instead of fighting, talk! Just talk, without changing the tone… this will avoid bigger fights.

Two people who love each other can’t be arguing for nothing.

be a companion

Remember when we said that everyone has their own life? Yes you do. But it is very important that one participates in the life of the other.

Talk about your job, professional growth, friendships, anyway… about everything.

Respect your loved one’s family

This is a key point!

You need to respect his family and especially his mother. And if he has, the sisters, too.

They are fundamental parts of his life. Talking bad about them won’t do him any good, never do that.

Respect your love friendships

With friendships it’s the same. They already existed before you arrived. So don’t talk about them or try to distance him.

On the contrary, approach them, treat them well. It’s the best thing to do.

Be careful with the envy of others

Don’t keep telling others about your relationship.

Envy and the evil eye exist and can influence your relationship yes! be careful with negative energy that can affect you.

be true

The lie has short legs.

It’s a cliché but it’s super true. Don’t fall for the silly thing to start hiding something or another.

Always be true. After all, you also want your partner to be true to you.

Life for two is not easy, but it is wonderful!

Beware of Routine

It is important to be careful with dreaded routine!

For a relationship to work, it’s essential that you don’t stay in the same. Whether in everyday life or even in sex.

Is important innovate and always surprise the partner. And even in a marriage of years this is possible. You just can’t settle.

Go out to dinner at different places, go to the movies together, how about a motel? What do you think? If you don’t like it, it can be a hotel to spend a different night.

Not falling into routine is one of the attitudes to make a relationship work

do therapy

Nowadays, anxiety and insecurity take over society in general. There comes a time when we all need therapy, you know?

Having a professional who can guide you and help you on this walk of life is essential.

When you do therapy you can expose your deepest feelings and, based on them, can make the right decisions for life.

And that, makes therapy help a lot in a relationship.

Make a Love Binding

THE Amorous Mooring is a ritual that can be done with two goals:

• Find a New Love
• Restore or Strengthen an Existing Union

In both cases, the Mooring will help you in how to make the relationship worksince she will act in love and for love.

With the Amoração Amorosa ritual, performed by , your relationship will be lighter, as we only work with White Magic.

The conversation between the couple becomes easier, companionship increases and love, in fact, flows.

Now, if you don’t already have a lover, Binding will already prevent your next relationship from succeeding, and that’s fantastic!

If you are in need of some help with your love affairs, book a Spiritual Consultation with Maicon Paiva!