The price of betrayal – Blog

Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Or have you ever cheated on someone? If you live in society and live with different people during the day, you may feel tempted at least once. But, it’s always good to know that this can be expensive. Do you know the price of betrayal?

A co-worker, a friend from college, a professor at the academy. We talk, make friends and sometimes start to have deeper feelings for the person. In most cases, when we already have a partner, the feeling is fleeting, or it’s just a little crush. But there are those men who really take our ground and our peace. What’s up? What to do? To betray or not to betray?

What needs to be taken into account is: the price of betrayal. How it can affect your life and if you are prepared for it. And if you regret it? Would your partner forgive you?

But it also has the other side. What if this person proves to be the ideal match for you?

This is a very personal decision, but we can analyze some specific situations to help you:

The price of betrayal – an adventure

If, for you, having an affair is a sign of adventure, of getting out of the rut and fulfilling a fantasy, it is worth thinking about what is happening in your relationship that makes you want to shake things up. Can’t you spice up your current relationship without hurting anyone? Or it’s time to think about what you really want. If the desire for freedom and the unknown speaks louder, maybe this is not the best time to be with someone. Rethink your choices and see what makes you want to cheat on your partner.

The price of betrayal – he betrayed you too

You found out he had an affair and now you think you have the right to do something too. Think calmly if this kind of revenge will really bring you the satisfaction you imagine or if it will bring even more pain to your relationship. How long are you going to throw it in each other’s faces that this happened? If you’ve been cheated on, it’s up to you to decide whether to forgive or not, but getting revenge by doing the same will only unravel the relationship even more. Even more so if this is not something you would do of your own free will. More than your partner, could you forgive yourself?

The price of betrayal – you’re in love

This can happen. You met and even though you’re with someone, your heart beats faster and you can’t stop thinking about the other person. And now? How to choose between the two? That’s when we may want to stay with everyone, until we make a decision. Try to be sure before making the final decision. But can you keep this secret? Will you feel guilty and leave traces? This can ruin everything and you end up alone.

Or will this time be important for you to mature and make the best choice?

Regardless of the reason and circumstance, consider what you stand to lose against what you stand to gain by having an affair. And be prepared to deal with the consequences, whatever they may be.

There are some stories that have worked. Marriages that improved after an affair, or new couples that formed through an extramarital relationship. But it’s not always like that, and they all involve a lot of heartache and a touch of rancor.

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