How to deal with a clingy boyfriend? – Blog

All women like affectionate and considerate men, but sometimes that love goes a little too far and what we have is a clingy boyfriend, which can even suffocate us from time to time. Glue leads to loss of freedom, bouts of jealousy and endless fights. You want his space and he can’t understand it. Realize that he often does not do it out of malice, but out of insecurity or low self-esteem.

If for you the behavior invades your intimacy too much, maybe it’s time to end it. He may be a nice guy, but he’s not what he needs at the moment and trying to change the situation will only wear the couple down even more.

Now, if you believe in the relationship and want it to last, maybe you can do a few things to define your space.

Here’s how to deal with a clingy boyfriend

• Don’t answer the phone every time he calls, or respond to messages too quickly. Show him that you’re not available all the time, but that doesn’t mean you don’t like him. Just be careful not to take too long to return and have to deal with an endless DR.
• Book programs with friends and encourage him to do the same. If you want to go to the movies or have dinner with your girlfriends, tag them and then suggest that he do the same with his friends. Show that it’s possible for you to have fun separately.
• Support his independence. If he says he wants to do something on his own, like a course or a trip, encourage him. Show that you agree and that you will stay by your side through the process. Take an interest in the subject and don’t let him get discouraged.
• Ask him out with your gang. If he doesn’t want to respect your program with his friends, tell him to go along. At some point he will feel that he is left over and will understand the message.
• Make special programs with him and show how you like these moments. Be happy to be alone and take the opportunity to fill him with affection.
• Talk with a cool head and explain that you need some alone time, that doesn’t mean you want to look for someone else or that you’re tired of him, but to preserve each one’s individuality.

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