How is the relationship with Aries?

The relationship with Aries shows us that they are direct and frank lovers. They don’t usually play mind games, and you’ll usually know exactly where you are when you’re in a relationship with an Aries.

They can sometimes be relatively aggressive and domineering partners, but it’s done in a genuine, enthusiastic, and bold way that’s hard to find. Generally speaking, the excitement of dating or having a relationship with Aries negates your take-over attitude.

In that sense, they are often the initiator of a relationship, and the most common complaint is that they can be pushy or try to move things too fast.

Whether male or female, it’s important to note that Aries doesn’t want weak partners. Just because they tend to be domineering doesn’t mean they don’t want to work for it! Quite the contrary, they often get bored quickly with a partner which is a simple task. They typically do best with an equally aggressive and confident lover.

Aries is one of the most physically protective zodiac signs, usually not hesitating to risk life or limb if a loved one is in danger. The flip side of this is that they rarely back down from a fight or challenge, no matter how bad the odds may seem initially. Courageous and upstanding, it’s hard not to admire them in this area.

Relationships with Aries and Jealousy

In a relationship with Aries, the sign can get jealous quite easily. More specifically, if they are jealous, you will hear about it sooner or later. This is not a person who withdraws to reflect on these things; they take a direct approach to confrontation. Their candor is a good thing in this case, as they don’t sit around and resent you, but rather boldly explain themselves.

Aries relationship: sex

This is a passionate sign, unafraid of risk and often willing to accept a challenge. This can lead to promiscuity and wrong choices in the heat of the moment. Likewise, Aries lovers aren’t famous for being patient or subtle and can often be pushed away by partners who are overly cautious, reserved, analytical, or sensitive.

seduce arians

Seducing Aries is generally quite easy compared to some of the other zodiac signs. These are hunters and absolutely cannot resist the thrill of the chase. They are very impulsive, have nerves of steel and have no problem taking risks to get what they want. Best of all, they don’t over-analyze the situation before taking action. They are also naturally flirtatious and not overly intuitive. In short, a perfect match (for you!)

The secret to seducing an Aries is to make him come to you. Don’t let them see that you’re chasing them, as it will turn them off. Think of them as a cat, and you are a piece of rope. Play hard to get. Alternate between flirting outrageously with them and then appearing aloof, shy, or shy. They need to feel like the initiator here, not you.

Flirting with an Aries

These people like passion. Subtlety, philosophical debate and mind games are not for them. So you don’t want to blow their minds; you want to get your blood pumping.

Be as blunt and sexy as you dare. Lots of eye contact, sexual innuendo, a little skin if you have it, and every time you do something bad/sexy/inappropriate, apologize and shyly back away for a while. Remember that cat and the string.

Relationship with Aries: how to capture them

When you’re ready to catch them in your hammock, tell them how much you want them and be as impetuous and passionate as possible. Once you have their undivided attention, give them a weak reason why a relationship would be a bad idea. Appear to be very shy / indecisive / afraid of being able to do anything about it.

Now sit back and wait (don’t worry, we’re talking minutes here, not days!) Aries will cross a snow-covered mountain barefoot to get something they want. This may be counterintuitive, but they don’t want to compromise, negotiate, or intellectualize; they want the sport of getting what they can’t have!

Aries Seduction

I’ve already received several emails on this subject asking for clarification, so I’ll include an example below and respond to points that seem to be causing confusion:

I have some questions about the Aries man. I’m finding it hard to balance playing hard to get and making him happy.

When he asks me out, should I say I can’t, but tell him to ask me next week?

Also, how do I let him know I’m interested while continuing to play hard to get?

Last thing – from a sexual point of view, how long should I wait until I let him kiss me and go further.

I’m getting the impression that what the web says about the Aries man is that as soon as I do something sexual with him, he’ll move on.

The main point to remember is that Aries men hate being smothered. They like vulnerable women, but not needy ones. This is a subtle but huge difference. To use your example to illustrate:

If he asks you out, you can either agree or you can dump him, whichever you prefer. There’s no harm in doing it either. The main thing not to do is ask him out (or call him too much, or discuss your future together, your plans to marry him, etc.).

On the sexual side, you want to flirt and tease a lot. You can’t flirt too much with an Aries. Just keep in mind that the thrill of the chase is half the fun for him… so don’t give him any rewards too soon or too easily. The trick is that you need to let him know that you are making progress.

For example, on the first date, kiss him on the cheek, on the second date, kiss him on the mouth, on the third date, a French kiss, etc. It doesn’t matter where you create these limits, just make sure you increase them steadily. Believe me, he’s been monitoring these things!

Aries times are when you give up everything on the first date. They are no longer attached to you at this point, and there is no sport in chasing you anymore. This is a loss: lose with them.