Do not chase anyone for love, who does not treat you as a second option

Sometimes we get so excited about a relationship that we become obsessed with a person. Do not persecute anyone for love, because love and your happiness does not depend on your partner. Looking for love outside of us can cause us to chase someone, and that will only hurt us emotionally. Because true love is not pursued, it is attracted.

… Why don’t you find the love of your life?

Many people, by staying in a relationship, allow themselves to be treated as a second option. The problem they have is not that they need company, but that their self-esteem is very poor. When a person’s self-esteem is low, when they suffer from emotional attachment, they allow abuse without realizing it.

Sometimes it is difficult to realize that feeling love in our life only depends on ourselves. Our minds win us over, we win over seeking immediate gratification and we chase someone regardless of the consequences. We forget to give love to ourselves in every choice we make.

Don’t chase nobody, there’s no love when they treat you like second choice

… you deserve a man who loves you

As much as you like a man, don’t chase him, because true love will find you. But obviously, love will not come into your life just because you think you deserve it, but when you start to improve yourself. A man won’t love you any more if you sacrifice yourself for him. And most importantly, it is not the love of others that will make you happy, but your own love.

When you pursue a man, you give him permission to treat you like a second choice. If he has served you, if he doesn’t need to do anything to have you, he won’t value you or respect you. Begging for love only attracts emotional suffering and that hurts and leaves traces that are difficult to overcome. If you really want to be happy, come back to yourself, respect yourself.

Whoever begs for love does not respect himself, does not love himself, nor is he happy

… when a woman loves herself

Stop chasing a specific person, don’t fall in love with a person, fall in love with a lifestyle. Because love is not about someone loving you or accepting you. Love is about doing what you love the most and choosing who to do it with as a team. The most important thing when you fall in love is that you love yourself.

Don’t chase anyone for love. Do not behave absurdly damaging your self-esteem. Choosing a person and chasing him or hoping he changes means you don’t value yourself. If you need to pursue it, it means that there is no love in you, there is no attraction that you have cultivated. Well, whoever has love shines, she attracts, men look for her crazy.

… How to charm a man

1. Do not send him a third message if he does not respond to the first two

2. Avoid dressing up and dressing in the best for those who do not pay attention to you or look for you

3. Don’t plan a weekend with someone who canceled your last 7 dates

4. If the friends of the boy you like do not know your name, do not tell them about your love for him

5. When a man does not appreciate you, it is in vain to get excited and try to impress him

6. It is in vain that you expect him to change if you showed him all your feelings and charms

Love at first can blind you, but then take responsibility for your mistake

At first what unites the couple is passion. This passion is very important, but it is not good to let yourself be blinded to the extreme of begging for love. Don’t chase someone for love if they don’t chase you too. If you show that you are in need of love, your partner will do nothing to have you. Also, chasing someone for love closes the doors to a true love.

7. He is always busy and always has other, more important options to pursue.

8. There is no point in chasing someone who pays attention to you only when it suits them

9. If he flirts with you only in private and in public he treats you as a friend, it’s not worth it

10. Avoid those who tell you that they love you, but with their actions they show you otherwise

11. If he looks you in the eye and tells you that he doesn’t feel ready for a relationship, let it go

12. There is no point in betting on a man who flirts with other girls in front of you

Love is your responsibility, don’t chase anyone to love you

Don’t run after someone who already knows where you are.. If he is interested in you, he will call you, come over or leave a message. Chasing someone who doesn’t like you will only cause them to treat you like a second option. When you learn to respect yourself, you will stop begging for crumbs of affection. Because there is no way that the love of others will satisfy you completely. But that you respect yourself will cause them to respect you and treat you with more attention.

13. When a man does not value you and does not pay attention to you, he tells you, “take care of your happiness”

14. Do not have hope in who takes you into account only when they have nothing better to do

15. The man who continually makes excuses instead of apologies is not for you

16. If you are the only one who has initiative and never writes you or asks for a date, it is not for you

17. Don’t chase a man who continually participates in online dating sites.

18. Let in the man who would rather play and chat on his cell phone than talk to you

You deserve someone better who chooses you above all else, always.

It makes no sense for you to chase a man for love. Because a relationship based on reciprocated love is always more solid and healthy. But obviously, it’s hard to give up someone you idealize and want for yourself. However, when you value yourself like no one else can, you understand that all those experiences were lessons. Then you thank and begin to improve your self-love.

19. If he continually makes you wait and sometimes just doesn’t show up, he tells you, “I don’t care about you.”

20. When a man does not call you continuously, he is thinking about something else, he is not interested in you

21. If he does not remember past conversations or how you dressed, he does not pay enough attention to you

22. Do not trust a man who every time you call or chat, ask, who is it?

23. If he only texts once in a while and after midnight, he doesn’t care enough about you.

24. If he says he loves you and promises you a lot only when he is drunk, it is not worth it

Dedicate yourself to loving yourself tenderly and knowing your potential to love

Love is in what you give yourself. Respect, tenderness, attention, order, balance, gratitude. When you give yourself these valuables at every moment of your life, you feel loved. Therefore, do not chase a man for love. Better focus on being in balance with yourself. Seek to be clear about your self-love. It authenticates, yourself wherever you go. Be your best lover yourself, your main source of happiness.

25. If every time a man looks for you he wants only one thing from you, it is not convenient for you

26. If the family of the man who wants you knows nothing about you, you are not his priority

27. When a man is not calm by your side, he has something better to do elsewhere

28. If a man criticizes you harshly when you’re wrong, he doesn’t love you, walk away

29. If you settle for the crumbs of happiness that a man gives you, work on your self-esteem

30. If you have to chase someone to be happy, come back to yourself, you yourself are your true love

Well, only when you shine for yourself, when your happiness only depends on you, do you attract the right man. Because everyone wants to be next to the light of love. But only those who also have their own have the confidence and security to approach you and ask you for a date. Only when you have true love do you attract and can you build a healthy relationship.

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