{"id":25406,"date":"2022-11-15T23:06:22","date_gmt":"2022-11-16T07:06:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lovemagicworks.com\/10-tips-for-surviving-a-first-date-after-a-breakup\/"},"modified":"2022-11-15T23:06:22","modified_gmt":"2022-11-16T07:06:22","slug":"10-tips-for-surviving-a-first-date-after-a-breakup","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovemagicworks.com\/10-tips-for-surviving-a-first-date-after-a-breakup\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Tips for surviving a first date after a breakup"},"content":{"rendered":"
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After a painful breakup, you may want to give love another chance. But how do you know if you’re really ready to start another relationship? Will you be able to face the fear of being hurt again? All of these questions can come up before a first date, so it’s important to take the first step in order to get over the trauma of a broken heart.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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If you feel insecure about starting a new romance with someone you just met, don’t awesome.club<\/strong> We want to share with you 10 tips for surviving a first date after being hurt by a breakup.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

1. Don’t be afraid to fail<\/h3>\n
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Sometimes, we can feel afraid that everything will go wrong on a first date. But being always stuck in the past, thinking about what could have been, it’s going to be hard to find another person you feel like connecting with. Take a walk, go to the cinema or have a coffee with someone, even if it’s just for an afternoon. If something goes wrong, what does it matter? Remember that this is a sign of being on the right path.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

2. The present is what matters<\/h3>\n
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You must consider the past as a learning experience. Think you’re writing your own story and you’ve just finished a chapter of your life. Would you like your story to be different this time? Avoid making the same mistakes and don’t let the situations that hurt you happen again. And, of course, look for someone who is on the same wavelength.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

3. Take it easy<\/h3>\n
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You have all the time in the world. But you may feel anxious and start to rush things. It is better to do everything slowly, enjoy the new love, remembering the experience gained in the past. It’s time to see this person for who they are, not just someone to fill in the transition phase.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

4. Take pride in your accomplishments<\/h3>\n
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If you’ve made the decision to date someone else, feel proud. Not everyone manages to demonstrate their love or start a new relationship. But if you really seek this, even at the risk of being disappointed again, you should always allow yourself new opportunities. Facing doubts requires a lot of courage and clarity.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

5. When in doubt, follow your intuition<\/h3>\n
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If you are in doubt, you may conflict and try to look away from the other. The ideal is to accept that your mind is chaos that works, that you managed to evolve and that you can love other people. At this stage, you can ask your friends and family for advice for words of encouragement. Even so, remember to follow your instincts, because that’s the only way you can go where you want.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

6. Express what you feel<\/h3>\n
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It’s okay to feel pain after someone broke your heart. But the problem arises when you continue to feel sorry for yourself, avoiding contact with other people so as not to get hurt again. Before accepting a first date with someone, take some time to vent your frustration and only then force yourself to move on with your life: visit that friend you haven’t seen in a long time, look for a new hobby… That way you will surround yourself with thoughts positive and will be ready for a new relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

7. Look for the bright side of life<\/h3>\n
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This advice is related to the previous one. You should do whatever makes you happy and discover the beauty in life. When your heart is broken, it’s normal to only see the negative side and forget about your surroundings. One way to rediscover this is to change your appearance, visit an interesting place like a museum, or take a walk in the park. By making small changes in your life, you can make a big difference and know that if something didn’t work, it wasn’t your fault.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

8. Trust that love will come<\/h3>\n
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The first date should not be forced. You are not in a trial and error test, so everything should happen naturally. What didn’t work, didn’t work and, as the saying goes, “things happen for a reason”. Love will find its own way over time and this can happen slowly or abruptly. Trust your wisdom and sooner or later love will knock on your door.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

9. If it doesn’t work, no problem<\/h3>\n
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Sometimes a first date doesn’t work out. What’s the problem? None! Just look for someone else with whom you can get along and for things to flow better. In this sense, we recommend that you consider the following details, to know if someone likes you or not:<\/p>\n

Body posture: how did you sit? How were your postures during the meeting? Did he lean towards her? Did he cross his arms? Or did he keep his distance? His expressions: look you in the eye? Didn’t he stop smiling? Did he ever blush? Remember that a smile can be fake. If he laughs naturally, it’s because he likes you. Length of date: Was it limited to just one dinner? If, after the meal, he suggested a coffee or invited you for a walk, it’s because he wanted to spend more time with you. Green light for the second date: did you exchange phone numbers? Did you arrange a second date? <\/p>\n

Each person is different from the other. You may have dated someone who is introverted, but even so, such signs will be clear to know if he really likes you. This way, you will be able to make your future decisions, according to the level of success of the first meeting.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

10. Always be grateful<\/h3>\n
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Whether the first date worked or not, remember to thank your partner for spending the day with you. Many times, when someone breaks our heart, we are filled with negative feelings and forget to thank the people who have always been there for us. Remember that sometimes the best thing that can happen to you is to end a relationship, and instead of holding grudges, try to remember the beautiful moments spent together and project them into this second chance that life has given you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Did you go on a date after someone broke your heart? Did you have fun with this person? Or haven’t you given love a second chance yet? Share your experiences with us in the comments section.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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