Why Does My Husband Treat Me So Badly? Understand Why This Happens!

There are many people who come to Space with the same question: why does my husband treat me so badly? There is no single answer to this, but in this article we have put together some guidelines so that you can identify what is happening in your relationship, how to proceed in each case and what to do to change this situation.

Why does my husband treat me badly? Find it out!

Why does my husband treat me so badly?

The first thing to do is understand the situation as a whole. Has he treated you badly ever since? Or did he start treating you badly all of a sudden? Generally, when there is a situation where the husband is being rude, cold, rude and stupidat the beginning of the relationship he was a different person.

So it’s important to understand what made him change that way. Is there a problem he’s having? Or is he just someone of bad character and doesn’t know how to value who you are? All these possibilities must be analyzed by you to understand why your husband treats you so badly.

There are many reasons why a man treat your wife coldly, indifference or mistreat her somehow. Some of them are:

• Bad character, he just is, but he pretended to be a good man at the beginning of the relationship.
• He’s going through some problem that he can’t expose, so he might be taking it out on you.
• You also treat him badly, so you’re living a relationship where you’re both trading barbs.
• He is an oppressor and you are in an abusive relationship.
• The relationship is frayed and he has stopped caring about you.
• You are experiencing a crisis in your marriage and the way he expresses dissatisfaction is by treating you badly.

Know that the fact that he treats you badly doesn’t mean you did something wrong or who deserves to receive such rudeness. On the contrary, no one deserves to be treated with indifference or mistreated, even more so by those you love. Then don’t blame yourself for any of this.

Read too: My husband is not a partner, what do I do?

He treats me good and then treats me bad, why does that happen?

It’s hard to define why your husband treats you well and then treats you badly. In most cases, when this happens it is because the man is an oppressor. In an abusive relationship, the oppressor treats you well by trying to make up for your abusive behavior.

Here at Espaço we have already talked about abusive relationships, how to identify and what to do if you are experiencing a relationship like this. Briefly, a abusive relationship occurs when one party is violent towards the other, whether verbally, psychologically, physically or in any other way. If this happens repeatedly, you may be living in an abusive relationship.

Read too: I feel undervalued by my husband, what do I do?

He treats me coldly, what could be happening?

treat someone with coldness or indifference can be a sign of dissatisfaction. If your husband treats you this way, it could be that he is dissatisfied with something. This dissatisfaction is not always related to you, it could be that he is dissatisfied with something about himself, his work or his life as a whole.

In any case, it is essential to sit down and talk with him to understand why he is treating you coldly. Regardless of the reason, he shouldn’t treat you like that. If he is dissatisfied with something, he should talk about it and resolve it in the best way.

My husband says he loves me, but treats me badly: is he lying?

You can’t say he’s lying, but it’s certain that there’s something very wrong with their relationship. If he says he loves you, he needs to match that on a daily basis, being a faithful husband, romantic, affectionate, companion and worried about you. But if he does the opposite, he is someone ignorant, abusive, violent and manipulative, he could be lying about saying he loves you.

Regardless of whether he really loves you or not, you need to be with someone who makes you feel loved. You need to be with someone who you fully trust and who makes you feel safe. So don’t settle for less than you deserve, accept someone who loves you and shows their love on a daily basis.

So, talk to your husband. Show that you don’t feel loved, that you’re not getting the attention you need, and express your dissatisfaction. If nothing changes, then you need to make it clear that you won’t be able to maintain a relationship where you don’t feel loved.

Read too: What to do when my husband treats me badly?

He treats me with indifference, am I the problem?

If he is treating you with indifference it is because he is dissatisfied with something. But that doesn’t mean you’re the problem. Most of the time, the person has a personal dissatisfaction and ends up taking it out on those around him. So she tries to talk to her husband about his behavior.

My husband abuses me psychologically, what do I do?

One of the worst violence experienced in an abusive relationship is the psychological. That’s because it causes enormous damage to the victim’s life, who doesn’t know what to do. This violence can occur subtly or grossly. In any case, you feel like ending the relationship, but you feel guilty or something prevents you from doing so.

If your husband is psychologically mistreating you, it’s time to put a stop to psychological violence. You can still try to save your relationship with a frank and honest conversation. But if nothing changes, it’s important to take the first step and get out of that relationship.

Why does my husband treat everyone better but me?

Are you experiencing a difficult time in your relationship? Most likely, your relationship is in crisis, worn out or has fallen into routine, so he is treating you badly, with indifference and coldness. That could explain why he treats everyone well but you.

This clearly shows that the problem is in the relationship, so it’s important to talk to better understand what’s going on in his head.

Read too: How to overcome a crisis in marriage?

There are many situations that can lead a man to be rude and cold within the relationship. So try to talk to your partner, express your dissatisfaction, show that you deserve to be loved or loved and don’t accept less than all the love you deserve.

Here at you can also obtain Spiritual Help to try to identify what is going on in your relationship. With the Spiritual Consultation, we can find out if there is any negative influence in your life that is causing this disorder in the relationship.

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