Fast breathing and moaning are two different ways to show pleasure during intercourse. Each person has a type of behavior in these moments. In addition, these reactions can be voluntary or involuntary, depending on the type of stimulus you are having. Of course, there are men who gasp or groan when they’re having a relationship, but moans, in particular, are a hallmark of women.
The truth is that women are more “theatrical” when it comes to sex. That’s why they tend to dramatize more what they’re feeling, expressing through moans, words or even screams all the pleasure obtained. All this while the men remain somewhat stable. That’s the nature of genders and the way they both find that they’re having fun.
Is the moaning for anything other than pleasure?
When playing a sport or any activity that requires a lot of concentration, everyone remains extremely focused on what they are doing until the moment the task is finished. It is common, in sports competitions, to see athletes screaming at the end of the race, as if they were releasing all the energy that, until that moment, was being repressed and directed towards the sport. In sexual relationships it is no different.
Of course, both are there to enjoy the moment and enjoy the experience, but there is also concentration for sex. For this reason, the moans and whispers would be an outlet for those involved in the activity, releasing concentrated energy just as athletes do through screaming.
Why, after all, do women feign pleasure?
It is feminine nature to try to please your partner by showing how much pleasure he is providing in bed. According to a study carried out at the University of Lancashire in the United Kingdom, the moans and other noises emitted by women are part of this enactment.
The research showed that four out of five volunteers interviewed admitted to faking an orgasm using moans during intercourse, simply because they would like sex to end quickly. This is an important point for understanding male-female relationships.
While, for men, sex is a fundamental part of the relationship, what statistics show is that most women don’t give that much importance to the issue. It is clear, however, that this is a one-off survey, which does not mean that the opinion of the interviewees actually represents the opinion of women as a whole.
The statistic became even more impressive when the researchers asked them why they were faking a pleasure they weren’t actually experiencing. 92% of women said they used moaning to please their partner, making him believe he was being the best of lovers during sex.
Whether this is a valid strategy or not at the moment, the truth is that most men remain in eternal doubt about the veracity of the pleasure shown by their partners and, although some claim that they also simulate excessive pleasure to satisfy them, the the art of acting in bed is still a more feminine field.