We give power to the alpha male

Alpha males are created by all of us. An alpha male without a group of admirers and admirers would not be an alpha male. Group leaders feed on the desire, admiration, envy, submission and adoration of the rest. Without these admirers, they are nothing.

The alpha male gains a male following for his ability to pick up women. The more he has at his feet, the more macho he appears and the more points he earns in the eyes of others. It works that simple: fucking women is a demonstration of virility, awakening desire in them and making them fall in love is a show of strength.

Men respect and envy the leader and submit to him. Everyone ends up finding their role and their place within the group’s hierarchy and, generally, their goal is to score points to go up in it; either to be close to the leader, or to replace him when he falls.

How women feed the myth of the alpha male

Women play a fundamental role in the creation and feeding of the leader (who treats us like hunting trophies). Those who manage to be chosen by him see their status grow: the leader’s girlfriend is respected by others and admired by women. Being the chosen one immediately puts you on the throne, next to the alpha male. Thus, we are proof that the male is a powerful and desirable being.

It is a historical legacy: for a long time women have always been out of the public space and the only way to have a social position has always been through marriage. However, the Alpha, although he flirts with many, only chooses one to occupy the marriage throne, the role of wife.

Princess tales make us believe that we can be chosen, even if we are commoners, and that We will get out of poverty through the love of Prince Charming. So we have some hope that the alpha male won’t look down on us after getting a date with us. We think it’s possible that he can see how special and wonderful we are, so that he doesn’t abandon us after using us.

When a man tells us that we are not like the others, they make us believe that the others are the worst and we are the best.

In the stories of my childhood, the princesses were beautiful, slim, perfect, kind and loyal. They represented all the others with defects, and far from patriarchal beauty: fat, ugly, chubby, with different physical dimensions than the norm and with a terrible personality: almost all of them were envious, mean, manipulative, selfish, ambitious, capricious, and violent.

This contrast between the women and the princess serves to make us feel superior to the others and fight alone against the others to obtain the most precious treasure: the love of a man. This is how they incite us to have rivalry relationships with others, to behave badly with others and to reject all other women because they are “bad”.

We all want our trophy

This competition is good for the alpha male because that way he scores more points: it’s not just that he likes women, but that he makes them fall in love and dominates them as he wants while they fight over him. For the alpha male, falling in love with women is a sport: he enjoys the more the more we suffer for him and the more we are pining for his attention.

For many women, the ego can play very tricks on us. In reality we only want to conquer the powerful male to show him who is boss, to subdue him and to show others our own power. It is a war in which anything goes as long as the male is brought to his knees at some point: for some women, conquering the alpha male means reaching the social pinnacle where they can be admired by other women (and desired by the rest of the world). the men).

So it’s not so much a question of sex, as a question of power: we like to hunt ladyboys because they are harder to get, because there are many more women trying to hunt him down. We like challenges and we like to win in every battle. That’s why we’re able to fall in love with an alpha male who can use us and dump us when he no longer needs us.

His manhood will be in question when he falls in love, that is why the alpha male resists love tooth and nail. He likes to be loved but is afraid of losing his freedom and his power. So he avoids falling in love so as not to suffer and not to be manipulated by a woman.

It’s time to dethrone the machísimo

For the alpha male there are two types of women: the good ones and the bad ones. We want to be desirable and sexy women, but in the right measure to to be later chosen as legitimate wives or companions. It is a difficult task to win over the Alpha with our feminine charms and try to convince him to value us as possible good mothers for his children.

It is almost impossible to have sex and then make him fall in love: alpha males believe that easy women are not suitable to become Ladies. They need girls who don’t relate to each other from sex, who are submissive, who love unconditionally, who put up with cuckolding, who take care of the happy family and who endure everything with resignation. to the alpha males They don’t like women who demand equality from them: they do not know how to treat them as partners because they have always treated them as enemies or as objects to increase their prestige and demonstrate their virility.

so the same we shouldn’t waste time dreaming of getting the attention of the alpha male: to him all women are equal. And he defends himself from all of them with the same force.

Maybe it’s time to dethrone him, to take away his power, to stop giving importance and to relate to other men who live more free and are not so submissive to gender mandates.

The same is time to choose men who do not need to collect women, who do not need the admiration of other men, that they do not need to lead a group and exercise their power in an absolute way.

We should still broaden our sexual and sentimental horizon and focus more on men who work on their masculinity, who are not afraid of love and who do not need the applause of others.