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Tips to encourage your partner to perform more oral sex on you

Sex should be an act of pleasure for both parties involved. Both the man and the woman must have their desires fulfilled by the partner so that the satisfaction is total.

And what man doesn’t love to receive oral sex?! Of that woman no doubt! But the problem is that some men forget that their partner can and should also benefit from this type of sex.

Of course, many men love receiving and have no problem performing oral sex on their partner, and even enjoy it. But it is true that some really have difficulties in doing so, as explained by sexologist Walkíria Fernandes.

“Those who don’t like it probably had in their upbringing some negative representation of the vagina, such as the idea that it’s a smelly organ, or that you shouldn’t put it in your mouth. Even some women have difficulty receiving oral sex for the same reason,” she says. “Others still did not develop a greater intimacy with the female figure, presenting some difficulty in more intimate contact”, adds the professional.

But the good news for women is that there are ways to encourage your partner to perform oral sex on you! Or even to encourage him to do the act more – in the case of those men who are in the habit of doing it from time to time. Check out some tips:

Hygiene

The first measure that a woman should take is in relation to her intimate hygiene, as highlighted by sexologist Walkíria. “Although the majority report having this care, they often do not have it properly. Being clean and fragrant is a fundamental condition for receiving oral sex,” she says.

If possible, before sex, invite your partner to take a shower with you. It will undoubtedly be a pleasant moment for both of you and, in addition, your partner will know that you, in fact, care about keeping your private parts in good condition.

“Consultations with the gynecologist are equally important, for the woman to know if she does not have an infection or a foul-smelling discharge”, adds sexologist Walkíria.

do it yourself first

If you know your partner loves oral sex, if he keeps his private parts clean, there’s no reason not to! Start yourself and do it right.

Afterwards, you can even ask if he liked it and say, gently and sensually, that now it’s your turn. He probably won’t refuse the request and what’s more, he’ll be delighted to offer you the same feeling!

use oils

A good tip is to buy some flavored edible oil, the kind you can find in a sex shop. If you know what his favorite flavor is among the options (grape, strawberry, chocolate, etc.), even better!

Your partner will certainly be super excited about the little gift and understand that, in addition to receiving, he should perform oral sex on you. After all, you even made the choice of flavor!

Expose your desires

Dialogue is always very important between the couple. Even when it comes to sex! Sometimes the partner does not perform or performs little oral sex on the woman because he does not realize / know how much she enjoys the act.

Showing that you feel pleasure and talking openly with him about the desire to receive oral sex are fundamental measures.

However, if even with your intimate hygiene and talking about it with him, you notice that your partner has some difficulty accepting the idea of ​​performing oral sex, it’s time to have a more serious conversation.

“If the woman wants to receive oral sex, but notices that the man does not accept the idea well, it is necessary to ask him why. Knowing this makes it easier to handle the situation. It is important for her to say that she likes him and that she would like him to perform oral sex on her. The more the couple is free to have intimate conversations, the better the affective sexual relationship tends to be”, concludes sexologist Walkíria.

With a good dialogue, a good dose of creativity and a lot of sensuality, a woman can achieve everything she wants in bed! So, if today’s goal is to receive (more) oral sex, follow the tips and good luck!

Tais Romanelli

Journalist graduated in 2009 (58808/SP), freelance writer since 2013, totally adept at working from home. Communicative, always full of topics to talk about and inspiration to write. Responsible at work and outside of it; dedicated to commitments and the people with whom she lives; in love with family, dogs, home, the sea, moments of tranquility and also excitement.

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