Tips to do well in life

Surely you know someone who, when he arrives at a place, transmits a contagious energy. Cheerfully, politely and thoughtfully, the lucky woman earns the adoration of everyone around her. And you’re left wondering what she has that you don’t. The answer is quite simple: charm.

To become irresistible, you just need to know how to listen and value the person you are talking to. First, stop and think about how you would like to be treated. Then, analyze the characteristics of such a charming woman. In the book O Poder do Charme, by Sextante, Brian Tracy and Ron Arden give other tips. Check out!

exude charm

– Smile honey!
Accept others as they are. Swap criticism for sympathy. And you don’t have to act forcefully. Just crack a smile before saying anything. The other will feel loved and you will feel satisfied with yourself.

– Say “thank you”
Everyone likes to feel important and needed. Capriche in the thanks. “Please” is another expression to use at will…

– See the good
Without even realizing it, people need approval. By praising, you become supportive and needed. Try it!

– Listen with interest
No one likes talking to walls. Treat even a light chat as the most important thing in the world. When you show a true interest in the other, he feels important and that will make him like you even more!

5 enchantment tips

– Always look into the other’s eyes.
– Shake your head slightly.
– Keep your body facing the speaker.
– Let out an “ah!” or “an-huh” from time to time.
– Use words and expressions that show that you are listening to the conversation, such as “of course!”, “really?”, “I understand” and “no doubt”.

Practice in everyday life

– Save your guesses:
Only give advice when asked and leave the final decision for the person to make. How about answering one question with another? If they ask you: “What clothes do I wear to the party?”. You say, “What clothes do you think you should wear?”

– Practice speaking (low) in public:
First, calm down! Then, speak your truth slowly and calmly, which facilitates understanding.

– See your boss differently:
Is it hard to put up with the creature’s humor? Try to pretend you are the sweetest person in the world. Put yourself in his shoes and imagine yourself someone better. One hour his image ends up changing for you.

conquer in conversation

– Know how to listen:
Do not interrupt when the other is talking and stop what you are doing to respond to his call.

– Take a breath before answering:
In addition to avoiding breaking the other’s reasoning, the strategy demonstrates that the subject was so important that it aroused his reflection.

– Ask:
Those who question establish control of the situation. Even if you understood everything, it’s worth dropping a question at the end.

– Make comments:
Shaking your head just won’t do. Try to get involved, give your opinions, reveal your impressions.