It’s the stories behind the answers that really reveal your feelings!

These fun, romantic and deep questions are perfect for getting to know even more about your love. You can use it with a person you like, in person or to send on Whatsapp!

Remember these important tips to get attention:

Smile and maintain eye contact
Look away a little bit, maintain eye contact for a few more seconds
Find a way to get closer
Make questions

Topics to bring up when you first meet the person

1. Do you know _________ from where?

Use this question if you are at a friend’s party, where you can ask them how they met the host.

2. May I ask what you’re drinking? It looks so yummy…

3. Do you know where the nearest restroom, cafeteria, bus/subway stop is?

You strike up a conversation, whether you’re on the sidewalk or in a cafe/restaurant… just ask a simple question and smile. (A smile goes a long way in showing intent!)

4. Have you tried this ___________? I was thinking of trying it, but I don’t know if it’s any good.

You can use this if you see the person at a bakery, bar or restaurant.

5. Have you been waiting a long time?

Use it when you are in line somewhere…

Once you start the conversation, you can move on to…

Knowing the basics about the person

6. Ask his/her name and if he/she is single

7. Do you live in this area/city?

8. What do you do at work? Do you like what you do?

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9. Ask about something that was in the news that day or about a recent sporting event.

Finally, if you enjoyed getting to know the person and having a conversation, use these questions to bring up the conversation. They’ll give you the green light to ask you out!

Once you’ve gone through the “small talk”, the following subjects will allow you to get to know him/her better. Remember to show interest, ask “why” and listen to their answers!

Topics to talk about and get to know more about the person

Shared Interests

10. What do you like to do in your spare time?

11. What sports do you play or like to watch?

12. Do you have something fun planned for this summer/spring/fall/winter?

13. Do you like to travel? Where do you like to go?

14. What places did you visit that you liked the most?

15. What activities really make you happy?

16. Do you have any hobbies?

Career

17. What do you like most about your profession?

18. Do you see yourself doing the same thing in the future?

19. If you could start over, would you do something else?

20. Do you dream of having your own business? (if the person doesn’t already have it)

21. Do you usually get along with your coworkers?

Family

22. You have brothers?

23. Who do you talk to more, your mother or your father?

24. How often do you see them or talk to them?

25. Do you celebrate your holidays with them?

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26. What do you miss being at home?

Future

27. Do you want children?

28. How are your children? (if he/she has children)

29. Have you ever wanted to move to a different city/state or country?

30. What does retirement mean to you?

goals / dreams

31. What things are on your priority list?

32. What does being successful mean to you?

33. How has the pandemic affected you?

34. How do you want your life to be 10 years from now?

35. Do you make goals for yourself?

36. What are you most proud of having achieved?

37. What dreams do you have for your life?

38. Do you think you are an ambitious person?

Relationship stuff to talk about

39. Have you had many long-term relationships?

40. Have you ever been married/engaged?

41. How long was your longest relationship?

42. What do you think were the biggest problems in these relationships?

43. What do you consider the factors that prevent a relationship?

44. Could you forgive someone who betrayed you?

45. Have you ever cheated on someone?

Social media

46. Where do you spend the most time online?

47. How long can you go without looking at your phone?

48. Does it bother you when people are texting you when you’re together?

49. Have you ever made “cell phone rules” when you were in a relationship with someone?

50. Do you post personal updates online? Where and how often?

Conclusion

When you need topics to talk about with a person, turning the questions into a game is the only way! Add these questions to your date night or message to get to know him/her better.

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Don’t be intrusive, let the person express their opinion and pay attention to what they are saying. Don’t use all the questions at once or you’ll end up looking like an annoying intruder.

Take it easy and good luck!