There are words that hurt – Learn to overcome them! – Blog

Words carry enormous strength within them. They have the power to lift us up when we’re down or bring us down for good. They tear and bruise us, leaving scars that will never heal completely. Therefore, even in the most heated discussion, we need to be careful with what we say, as words can hurt as much as actions and, depending on the situation, will never be forgotten.

Of course everyone breaks out from time to time. With parents, children, friends, partner. The problem is how often this happens and the damage we can do. When the wrong words are used too often, it becomes psychological abuse and can destroy a person’s self-esteem and life. After all, there are words that hurt a lot!

We have created a list with some expressions and words that hurt so that you are aware before releasing them and so that you also think if there is someone around you who uses them too much.

Words that hurt – You’re bad, you suck, you’ll never make it

Especially if we are talking to children and adolescents, this pessimistic speech destroys anyone’s confidence. This young man who grew up hearing phrases like these becomes an insecure person, who doesn’t value himself and doesn’t believe in his potential, that is, a failure from the beginning.

Words that Hurt – Jokes that Humiliate

Commenting that a friend gained weight and encouraging her to lose weight is very cool. Making fun of her body, even in jest, is not cool. How is this person going to look in the mirror and face challenges if they feel that everything about them is wrong?

Words that Hurt – Swearing

Words like your ass, imbecile, sucker, etc… hurt a lot. They talk about everything bad that we can think about ourselves, working as a statement: See? You really are incompetent. And that’s not true.

Words that hurt – Threatening to end a relationship, saying you no longer love

If you don’t intend to carry out the threat, don’t say that you no longer love your partner. This creates rifts in the relationship and can backfire on you in the future.

These are some words that hurt. Surely you’ve heard others that you could add to this list. If you usually use some of them, it’s time for a change. Apologize to those you offended, promise to be more careful going forward, and keep your promise. Use words full of love and hope and all your relationships will be lighter and more delicious.

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