the love that was worth

Let’s be honest: few people start a relationship without any expectations of that works very well. And, in our conception – which came straight from Disney movies -, the expression “to work” is related to intense and pure love, whole life and infinite happiness, until we become the old people of “Up – Altas Aventuras”. Oh, oh, the fairy tales…

It’s just that sometimes it’s going to work out another way, you know? We don’t have to get to eighty, ninety or a hundred years old to look back and think, hey, it was worth it.

Of course, there are those relationships that are kind of messed up that, after they end, only leave bruises and pieces. For these, we don’t have to like and find it beautiful while it lasted, not necessarily, but of course there are those who can say goodbye without hurting – if we allow that to happen, of course.

And to allow, we have to understand one thing: relationships are different. It’s no use trying to change the nature of yours and insisting that what is no longer working continues to happen.

We need to learn to say goodbye and keep the good memories.

Others will come. Think about it. The important thing is to understand that, in its time, history was lived and added, even if it was through a different recipe for brigadeiro, a very incredible walk in the middle of routine days, a funny word that marked or anything that, seen in the The perspective of someone who values ​​relationships as something that needs to last is small.

Is not. At least not from this point of view, because, after all, everything in life is made up of these little things. But it’s really good to be able to sigh without any regrets, understanding the fleeting nature of things and seeing how cyclical and beautiful they are for being that way, in such a free and natural way. Let’s keep understanding that There’s love that comes, stays, passes and goes.

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