Sensual night: step by step to have an intense night of pleasure

When the relationship falls into the routine, when there is a special date – it could be your anniversary or the day you were promoted at work – when you want to show how happy you are in your relationship, anyway. Preparing for that breathtaking night, once in a while, strengthens the relationship and allows the couple moments of intimacy that will be remembered for a long time. By taking some care of the details, you can surprise your partner and even yourself with the best night ever.

1. Environment: create the mood

You may never have noticed, but the five senses get pretty sharp when it comes to sex. Using this feature can be a good idea to get more pleasure. Organize yourself, therefore, to create the necessary atmosphere, whether in the chosen environment, or choosing the ideal clothes or lingerie.

In the environment, use your creativity and decorate. Objects such as candles and incense sticks – if neither of them is allergic, of course – are great choices. Also try to create the feeling of well-being provided by bright colors and different textures in sheets and upholstery, for example.

These days, it is very difficult to find incandescent (or yellow) light bulbs in stores. They have been almost entirely replaced by fluorescent or white lamps, which use less energy and are more environmentally friendly. Yellowish lighting is naturally cozier and works in your favor when the intention is to create a mood. To achieve this effect, you can use “gelatin”, which is a material specially used for this purpose, and coat the cold lamp with a more welcoming color.

Another option to make the environment more pleasant is to invest in pieces of fabric in warm tones, such as red and amber, for example. Understand them over the curtains or “dripping” from the ceiling, with the help of small nails. The idea is to warm up the environment to warm up the relationship.

Invest a little and change the common sheets for sheets with special textures, such as silk or satin, this trick will stimulate touch and this detail can make all the difference. If you’ve already taken care of touch, smell and vision, choose a musical background for the night and separate appetizers and treats that activate the palate. Give preference to items that do not harm your breath – onions, garlic and other condiments of this nature should be avoided at all costs – and products that can be used to provide even more pleasure – whipped cream, chocolate, champagne and wine are good ideas.

2. You: “bride’s day” out of season

Your special night may have nothing to do with a wedding night, but that’s how you should look at it. So give yourself the opportunity for care that you would have on an occasion like your wedding. Get your nails done, do your hair, take a relaxing bath with oils, moisturizers and everything you’re entitled to – even if it’s not in a bathtub -, in short, spend time beautifying yourself and doing activities that make you more relaxed and happy.

Choose lingerie according to your mood. The color, the model and even the “touch” are important details that you should pay attention to. If the intention is to appear bold, prefer stronger tones, such as red, pink and yellow. If, on the other hand, you want to show your sensual side, go for the classic black and white, in addition to shades like pink and blue.

3. At night: what to do at “H” time

Remember: this must be a night to go down in history. Therefore, no practices and rituals that are already old acquaintances of the couple. It’s worth trying everything, as long as you feel comfortable, from massages with aromatic oils to erotic toys. The list of ideas is long and you can choose the one that suits you best.

How about, for example, putting the shame aside and rehearsing a striptease? Or offer the famous Thai massage – the one that is done using the whole body – to your love? What matters is to make the night special for both of you, and for you to remember it for a long time.

Finally, be yourself. Don’t force situations in bed just to please your partner. In addition to not seeming natural, this kind of attitude can make you feel under pressure – and that would ruin the night. Be yourself, unleash your imagination and enjoy.