Is he in love with you? 13 Signs He’s Sooo Into Yours!

We’ve probably heard it said that when a guy is in love with you, he will – often indirectly – make sure you know it.

While this idea is floating around for good reason, it’s not always that easy to realize. Even when a guy is clear about his intentions, if you are lacking in self-esteem, you may subconsciously label it as something else.

Showing feelings for another person requires a level of vulnerability that will always be difficult – no matter your gender. Just because men are traditionally more candid about their feelings than some women, That doesn’t mean all guys are pros at showing how they feel.

Some guys prefer to take things slow, not doing anything too bold, but consistently and slowly showing that they like you. Others prefer to get straight to the point.

If you’re in the unenviable position of wanting to know if he’s in love with you, we’re here to help 😉

Here are 13 of the signs that a guy is soooo into yours:

1. He has his eye on you – literally.

Visual contact. We have a million clichés and theories around it, but at the end of the day, there’s an air of mystery around it that we’ll never be able to define. What we do know is that it is significant. It can be flirtatious and fleeting or emotional and long, but either way, you’ll always be catching him looking at you.

2. He remembers important dates.

Have you ever forgotten a friend’s birthday? We all know how overwhelming it feels to miss an important date. Even when we care deeply about someone, it’s hard to remember all the dates.

So when a guy makes a point of recognizing something like this, be on the lookout. He wouldn’t ask how your niece’s twelfth birthday last Wednesday went if he wasn’t purposefully, sweetly, watching over you.

3. He always sends you good night.

You always seem to think about the person dearest to you before you go to sleep. Maybe it’s because he’s been running through your mind all day. Or maybe you feel the urge to comfort this person, even if you are not physically present with them. Regardless of the reason for this, when a guy is really into yours, he’s likely to be a big fan of good night messages.

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4. He is always very respectful.

This is important. If a guy doesn’t consider it mandatory to be respectful to you at all times, it’s not worth wasting time on it.

Respect can be seen in small and large gestures. He will not interrupt, talk or make fun of you during a conversation. Even if things heat up, he will never treat you with contempt. He will respect your opinion even if he doesn’t understand it.

5. He is always ready to help you.

When a guy is in love with you, all you have to do is ask for a little help and he will come running to meet you. He might grab your favorite coffee before work or surprise you by fixing the sink you’ve been complaining about for days.

6. He prioritizes you.

Words are cheap sometimes. It is through a person’s actions that you can see how much they love you. Does he make last-minute excuses just so he can meet you and does everything he can to have time with you, even if it’s just a little? So I don’t need to say anything else, right?!

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7. He wants to know everything about you.

It’s crazy how, once you like someone, even the most annoying detail about that person becomes something important. He always asks a lot of things when you’re together, doesn’t he? This is because he is interested in your life and everything that goes on in it!

8. He makes an extra effort to be with his family and friends (even if he doesn’t like them).

No matter who you are, it’s always intimidating to get to know someone’s circle of friends and family. Even if they aren’t overly critical of potential romantic partners, there will still be some tension. Keeping that in mind, you can see how only someone interested in something real would make that kind of effort.

9. He wants to be with you all the time.

Have you ever walked away from someone you just spent time with and thought “I miss you already”? As ridiculous as it may seem to third-party observers, this is how people who love tend to be. If your guy wants to spend all his free time with you, he’s showing you how much he cares.

10. He tells you all about his life.

Once you become important to a man, he will want you to know everything from his job to his hobbies. Sharing these kinds of details builds intimacy and trust.

11. He protects you.

If he knows that someone has hurt you, he will be involved in it right away. When he’s around, you won’t have to spend a lot of time cautiously avoiding the advances of unwanted guys. He will be alert for your safety and wants everyone to know you are with him.

12. He pays more attention to you than anyone else (especially other women).

For example, you might notice him watching your reaction to something rather than talking to the person. Maybe he makes a joke and you’re always the first person he looks at to see if you laughed. He’ll also always be noticing how you look, like when you do your hair differently, he’s the first one to notice and comment on it.

13. He thinks of you two as a team.

Rather than acting as an independent agent, he will always address you before making decisions. It may even be subconscious, but he will naturally take you into account.

WHAT ABOUT THIS?

What a man literally thinks when he’s in love with you