Self-love is undoubtedly reflected in a loving relationship. Learning to love ourselves, in order to show all our affection to our partner, is a fundamental pillar of stability. We reflect on this below.
The perfect couple does not exist, that’s true. But Loving you is respecting you, admiring you, being in the good and the bad. If this is not the case, if I do not love you as you are, if I do not support you, if I humiliate you and vice versa, this is not love and perhaps we are both deceiving ourselves.
That’s why, Many times our relationship is marked by our self-esteem. When we don’t love ourselves we allow others to overwhelm us, to make us feel bad…, and that is not love.
“You are in love when you realize that another person is unique”
-Jorge Luis Borges-
20 reasons to love you
How can we know if our partner really loves us? To do this, we are going to present 20 reasons that will allow us to know if the other person loves us and, also, if we ourselves are truly loving.
1. Because we admire each other
When you love someone you admire them. You admire his way of being, of behaving with you and with others. You admire his way of seeing life, his hobbies… To admire is to love.
2. Because we respect each other
when we love We respect each other’s opinions and value them. We respect your person. It is not a conflict to think differently.
3. Because we suffer when we feel that we have hurt others
When we love a person We suffer if we see that we have made a mistake with the. We feel worried and try to repair the damage we have caused.
Loving you implies that, in no way, am I going to wish you any suffering.
4. Because we forgive ourselves
When we love the other, We know and want to forgive. In love, not everything is rosy and sometimes, our partner hurts us in some way.
But the greatness is that he knows how to ask us for forgiveness and we forgive him without hard feelings. Because our love is strong and overcomes obstacles.
5. Because we complement each other
Because you give me what I lack. Because I am nervous and you calm me down. Because I am apprehensive and you relax me. Because you complement me and vice versa.
6. Because we do not demand each other, we are free and we are not owners of each other, just travel companions who want to travel on the same train
I love you because from the moment we looked at each other we both chose each other in the most free and respectful way possible to be traveling companions. But each of us is an independent and complete person.
when we love We are not half oranges, but complete oranges With their particular responsibilities we have to plan a future together.
7. Because we continue to surprise ourselves
A small unexpected gift, some tickets to our favorite concert, a message on my cell phone or for you to greet me with a smile. Little things that make a difference. All of this fuels love for the couple.
Loving you means that I will continue to nurture my love for you, even though the years go by and our love has become much more mature.
8. Because we have learned to enjoy the different stages of love
When we love someone, we know how to enjoy each stage of love. We no longer feel as much vertigo, but we have an unmatched complicity. Sometimes, we go back to look for the butterflies from the beginning and then return to our beautiful routine.
9. Because we want to spend time together
When we have a relationship with another person, we like to spend time together and share moments full of experiences and feelings.
10. Because we help each other
“She knows about this more than I do,” “He knows this better than me.” When we need help we know that our partner will be willing to make it easier for us.
11. Because we don’t forget a single day: How was today?
It is very important that the other person knows that we care about them and that every day the first thing we do when we see each other is say “How was your day?”
Caring about how you feel is essential to establish our support and the feeling of accompaniment towards the other.
12. Because we respect our spaces
Whenever we think about doing something we include it, although we also We know how to respect the moments when we need to be alone or in the company of others.
Loving you does not imply burden, but space and freedom
13. Because we show our love every day with small gestures
A wink, a kiss, a smile are enough. A gesture can contain more than a thousand words. A gesture can be the silent symbol of our love.
14. Because we still fondly remember things from our past together
Time has passed but we remember everything we have experienced together. All our successes, joys and also failures and difficulties but always united and facing them.
15. Because we defend ourselves
When we love someone, we can’t stand it if anyone can harm our partner in one way or another. We defend it “tooth and nail.”
16. Because we make ourselves feel good
When we love we don’t want our partner to feel bad for some of our actions and we try to make them feel happy with us.
Loving you helps us both grow and allows us to feel very good
17. Because with a look we tell ourselves everything
When we look at our partner we know if they are sad or worried. When we look at our partner we know how they feel, if you are uncomfortable or if you are really enjoying yourself. Together we have learned the language of looks.
18. Because there is still chemistry between us
Despite the passage of time and our changes, we continue to like our partner, we continue to feel attraction and desire towards them.
19. Because we are patient and generous
Love does not continually demand. Love is giving and also receiving. We only love when we are capable of making sacrifices for the other and we try to understand it, because it is not my vision or yours, it is a compedium of both.
We love when you accept each other’s flaws and the things we don’t like. When we are patient and do not intend to change someone or make them in our likeness.
20. Because we are loyal, authentic and honest
We cannot love anyone if we are not sincere and honest with them. Love has no big secrets for the other, At most, little secrets that make us more interesting. Being loyal, authentic and honest is the basis of our trust.
Other reasons to love you
I love you because:
We accept each other just as we are. We love being together. We have shared dreams. Every day we learn something new from each other. We leave each other space. We know how to surprise each other every day. We bring out the best in others. We take each other into account in our personal projects. We We provide peace and tranquility. We dream together without clipping our wings.
Feeling loved by someone we love is one of the best feelings we can experience. It is a wonderful gift that changes the way we see and feel life. When we meet that special someone, our worlds integrate and our dreams merge to create a future together.
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