I don’t need to pretend I like someone who doesn’t do me any good

As long as I don’t violate the rights of the other, I’m not obliged to agree with what doesn’t match my way of thinking, to swallow dry when they raise their voice, to be afraid to give up, to pretend I like someone who doesn’t. does me good, to live up to what others expect me to be.

I’m not forced to agree with what doesn’t match my way of thinking, just to please others. I have dreams of my own, unique feelings, my own desires, that is, no one knows me better than I do, so I will have to try to live my truths as best I can, disagreeing with what contradicts me, or I will just be a robot, unhappy and frustrated.

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I don’t have to swallow dry when they raise their voice to me without reason, when I feel offended in my dignity, when I’m deliberately attacked. The other will only know how far he can advance on me if I clarify the limits of my patience.

I’m not forced to insist on a failed relationship, for fear of giving up, starting over, giving me new chances to be happy. My withdrawals are courageous, they are thought out, rethought, they require time and many tears. Keeping myself trapped in a void of two that only hurts, because of the fear of the oppressive looks of those who don’t live with me, is one of the worst attitudes I can take.

I don’t have to pretend I like someone who doesn’t do me good, who doesn’t add, doesn’t add, or doesn’t do anything. I don’t distribute yellow smiles to false, hypocritical, self-serving and cowardly people. Keeping myself at a safe distance from everything and everyone that exudes negativity can only make me happier and more satisfied.

I am not obliged to live up to what others expect me to be, to dress according to what the shop windows sell, to listen to what the radios push me. I don’t subject myself to archaic patterns that only flatten everything that vibrates my heart. I am someone who feels, loves and hates according to the rhythm of my essence, of what my inner being claims, so mine, so necessary, so alive inside me.

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I don’t have to cry secretly when sadness takes over me, just because others may think I’m a weak person. My strength comes exactly from pain, my strength is rebuilt exactly during my emotional storms, so that the void is filled with the desire to start over.

I don’t have to accept everything bad that happens to me with resignation. I have the right to contradict, to defend myself, to scream my pain, so that I can rebalance and move forward, always free from what has happened.

As long as I don’t hurt the other’s right, as long as I don’t run over anyone, I will be able to deviate from everything and everyone who gets in my way, ignoring what doesn’t fit me, staying close to those who help me to be better and brings me truths, from those who bring me light, from those who accept me as I am, with integrity and a sincere smile. The only thing I have to do is be happy.

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Marcel Camargo