How not to fall into the temptation to cheat

It is known that the flesh is weak and that the temptation (attractive and interesting men) is everywhere. However, in this matter we follow the principle of “who seeks, finds”. If you don’t want to find a problem that could end your relationship, start by not looking.

1 – Don’t let yourself be needy for too long

The most propitious moment to fall into the temptation of betray your partner with another is when you feel needy, alone, when he doesn’t pay attention to you. So the first tip is: if you’re feeling this way, signal your neediness to your partner. Tell him that you’re feeling left out and that you want more attention. Another option is to try to approach him yourself.

Why not try having a romantic dinner for two followed by a hot night of love to start a warmer phase in your relationship? This can help bring the two of you closer.

2 – Stay away from temptation

That is, avoid going out to bars with your single friends, avoid chatting with singles on the internet, avoid exposing yourself to situations where flirting can happen. By doing this you eliminate some chances of putting yourself at risk of betraying your partner.

3 – Avoid chatting with your exes

Ex is ex and that’s it. If the relationship is over, there’s not much reason to keep trading stickers. Keeping in touch with an ex-boyfriend can make you, in a fragile moment, end up letting yourself be seduced again by someone who has already enchanted you in the past. So, avoid conversations with ex-flirts or ex-boyfriends.

4 – Don’t talk to other men right after a DR

Another weak point in a relationship is the moment right after a blood-boiling argument. At that moment, both you and your partner are on edge and everything that used to be good and delicious, at that time becomes a defect.

That is, after fighting, you will think that your partner is a terrible person and anyone who appears in front of you will seem more interesting. However, this is a matter of the moment, carried away by the fervor of the discussion. So, at that time, avoid chatting with men full of flirtations and escape the trap you could end up getting yourself into. Avoid this even on the internet, as virtual flirting is also considered cheating by many people.

Finally, the secret to not falling into the trap of betray who you love it’s not putting yourself in situations that favor it when you’re feeling fragile or needy, or when the relationship isn’t going well. Also, always be honest with your partner and express your feelings to avoid accumulating negative feelings.