How is your relationship? Watch out for these 3 signs of wear!

The lack of interest in the other and in the couple, the absence of common projects, the lack of communication and bad sex are unmistakable signs that something is wrong in the relationship. If passion comes like a tsunami, the love of a stable couple responds to a daily “do”.

In this way, leaving aside any of these pillars (friendship, affection, day-to-day construction and sexuality) can be a sign of lack of love. The signs are related to lack of communication, poor sexuality, routine and inability to project new goals together, in addition to not respecting the individuality of the other, being unfaithful or lacking commitment. Here’s how to deal with three very common situations:

Signs of wear and tear on the relationship

1. You fell into a rut

Some couples stay together, even though internally they are going through a silent breakup. This happens when some important and significant issues within the relationship generate conflict in a habitual way and, after recurring discussions, reach a point where no progress is made or resolved. There is a kind of vacuum or resignation that distances the couple. This would be the time to seek outside help, if both parties are willing to resolve the situation.

2. There are pending conversations

When the other is seen from a perspective in which there is nothing to be done, the idea that the problem is another is reinforced. And if anything has to change, it should be the other party. Thus, the relationship moves towards a position where there is only waiting. And this waiting is often the announcement of resignation. “It’s not my problem”, “nobody can plan anything with you”, “there’s nothing you can do”.

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3. Lack of transparency

Investing in a person consists of making public to them very intimate aspects that you wouldn’t show to everyone. The couple allows opening the door to a part of intimacy that they have not shown to other people, so it is necessary to have an intimate and now “bipersonal” space. Love is accepting the other as a legitimate other in their privacy, without fear of judgment.

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