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Friendzone: When Just Being Friend Isn’t Enough

“I’ve always been a good friend of yours, it’s just that I don’t know if it’s going to be that way anymore”… If this song describes your life, maybe you’re in the friendzone – or even putting someone in that “we’re just friends” zone. Want to think a little more about this subject? So keep reading this post and clear your doubts.

What is friendzone?

Friendzone is exactly what the word suggests: a friend zone. That’s where you get when you like someone who only sees you as a good friend. And the opposite can also happen, of course. In this situation, you have a friendship with someone who has a sexual or romantic interest in you.

This can happen to anyone, without any warning. If it’s reciprocal, it can be pretty cool. Otherwise, it generates some suffering.

5 facts about friendzone to think about

Fear, guilt, rejection… There are many feelings involved when there is a friendzone situation. Check out some thoughts on the topic below.

1. How to identify if you are in the friendzone?

You are in the friendzone when you realize that you feel something extra for that person who considers you just a friend. Some signs that indicate this are when your target makes it clear that you are just friends, wants to introduce you to other people, tells you about your romantic relationships or is even involved with someone.

2. Is it worth trying to get out of the friendzone?

It depends. Are you willing to perhaps jeopardize your friendship in the name of a possible relationship? If so, go ahead: have courage, declare your feelings and see if it is reciprocated. Otherwise, keep the relationship the way it is: just good friends.

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3. Is keeping only friendship a bad thing?

It’s okay that you would like to have your romantic desires fulfilled. However, we cannot magically make other people like us. All that’s left is to enjoy the friendship you have: it’s great to have someone to talk to and enjoy life, even without kissing on the mouth and holding hands.

4. What’s wrong with being rejected?

It’s never easy to get rejected, and that’s as true in romance as in any other aspect of life. At these times, try not to put yourself down. Think that there is nothing wrong with you, and that things happen the way and time they need to happen. Better to be rejected now than to live a love story that is not happy in the future.

5. How to deal with guilt?

It could be that your friend is feeling something more special for you. If you respond to these feelings, you can experience living something together. However, you don’t have to feel guilty if you want to keep it all just friendship. Have a heart-to-heart talk with your friend, and if need be, step away for a while until things go back to the way they were before.

If you can’t handle it, talk to someone else and, if necessary, seek professional help. Talking openly about feelings is liberating.

To reflect a little more

Deep down, everyone has been friendzoned. Below are tips on how to deal with it and other important advice.

Friendzone Healing Handbook

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I fell in love with my friend, now what? If that’s the question that’s going through her head right now, it’s worth checking out the tips in Thata’s video, which shows how to identify this passion and how to deal with it.

types of friendzone

Anyone who has heard a “friend” of the person they like knows how painful it can be. In the video above, Maria Ventura irreverently presents some types of friendzone. Are you in any of them?

Sincere chat about friendzone

According to youtuber Dora Figueiredo, there is no friendzone: only one person doesn’t want to have a relationship with the other. It’s worth watching the video to learn more about it.

Are you suffering from unrequited love and want to cry your sorrows? Be sure to check out this list of 12 heartbreaking songs to sing out loud.

Nicole Dias

Graduated and postgraduated in journalism, she ended up becoming a publicist by profession. Gaucho, blogger, passionate about life. Good with a fork, singer in the shower, great storyteller, terrible joke teller. She reads a lot, talks a lot, watches more Netflix than she should.

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