Looking for a relationship when you are at a high level of need is like going to the supermarket hungry, any crap will do.

In those moments, anything is better than nothing, and that’s why we accept anything that comes along, because we know we either hold on or we regret it. In these moments we forget that giving without receiving is not love, it is charity, because love is continuous and genuine exchange.

Genuine is everything that is true, pure, eccentric. It is wishing for the happiness of the other because when we related, there was a mutual exchange of interests, feelings and true vibrations.

We have to stop romanticizing disinterest.

There are two classic signs that mark the limit of what is acceptable: straying on the fence or hiding.

If someone does this to you, run away. She locks her heart and hides the keys. Do you know why? That person is not being genuine with you.

Genuine feeling makes people leave the house even with the freezing cold, and cross the city just to see someone. Genuine feeling makes people strive just to make someone else’s day better. Genuine feeling forbids people from making excuses to be with each other. You know that “who wants to do it” thing? So I know it’s something everyone says, but it’s true.

These days I watched an interesting video about a method to find out why we don’t accomplish some things in life. Basically you write a list of things you think you should do, then to each of those things you apply the phrase “I could do this if I really/truly wanted to”. And you realize that the things you don’t do aren’t filed away for lack of time or resources, but because people really don’t have the will to do them.

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You deserve someone who looks at you with such tenderness that he leaves you in no doubt about how much he loves you. You deserve someone who hugs you in public, who kisses you in public, without the slightest sign of fear. You deserve someone to take you on! You deserve to be the love of someone’s life, someone who doesn’t hide how crazy he is about you.

You deserve someone who loves you and takes care of you, because I know that in this way, you will also spare no effort in loving and caring for that person, in being for the other, in doing what you can just to hear a “you got better”. my day” and accept that as your greatest reward.

You deserve someone who on your birthday sends you flowers, asks you for a date or marriage with chocolates and a card. You deserve to take that trip to the beach and sing in the sand in front of that immensity… of love, declared in every note, every tone, every word.

You deserve someone who has no doubts about spending the rest of his life with you. You deserve someone who is not afraid to face the world for you.

You deserve someone who comes down from the wall, takes your hand and goes out there, telling anyone who wants to know that they only have eyes for you and only for you. Someone who respects you, who is altruistic, who believes in your dreams and wants to live them with you.

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You deserve someone who is a companion, friend and lover, all in one person. And that he knows how to recognize and be grateful to have you in his life. You deserve to be the priority in someone’s life.

Deserves loving messages, deserves to receive songs with dedications. Deserves gifts and presence. Lots of presence. Whenever possible. You deserve hot chocolate in bed, on the couch.

You deserve someone who strengthens you. You deserve someone who thinks your pain is the biggest in the world and who doesn’t hesitate to say “I’m here even if everything goes wrong”. You deserve someone who says he loves you, and above all, shows it every day.

If someone says he wants you, loves you, or is in love with you, but doesn’t take action to live it with you, collect your feelings and change direction.

Accepting less than you deserve is living on crumbs.

Only accept someone who is genuine with you.