Create the courage to change your life – Blog

Are you dissatisfied with some aspect of your life, or with your whole life, you know you need to change, but you can’t take action? This behavior is very common, after all, change takes work, fear and worst of all, it can go wrong. But even with all this, it is necessary to seek courage to change.

Sometimes we are unhappy and we don’t even know what bothers us, how we can feel better. This case is the worst, because it generates terrible anguish.

What gets in the way most when thinking about change is the fear of the unknown. How many people would rather stay in a harmful situation than take action? Whether it’s a bad job, an abusive relationship, or even an addiction. This happens because it is comfortable. It takes courage to change.

It doesn’t seem to make sense, after all, how can a negative situation be considered comfortable? As bad as it is, you’ve already learned to deal with it, you know how it works and, because of that, you feel safe. Your boss is rude and abusive. Okay, but you know how to act when he has a crisis or you’ve even developed techniques to keep him from blowing up on you. It’s simpler to stay in this situation than looking for a new job, isn’t it?

But when you decide to continue in inertia, you are telling the world that you don’t want to control your life. You are letting others write your story, and as such, you are not living up to your full potential. Does it look right? It’s because it’s not. So pluck up courage and make changes now, before you get further tangled up in self-indulgence.

How to create courage to change?

Identify what is wrong in your life: Do some reflection and find out what makes you most uncomfortable and unhappy. This is the aspect of your life that needs the most attention and change.

Plan actions: Get out of the world of ideas and start getting organized. See if you need to save some money, send a resume or look for a new house and go for it. Don’t think too much, just take small steps every day.

Don’t focus on problems or difficulties: Every change involves risks, but also possibilities. Focus your attention on opportunities and solutions. Is it hard to save right now? Save less money until you can earn more, for example.

Meditate: Clear your mind of all negative energy that can hold you back or cause fear. Free yourself from the shackles of what is socially accepted and embrace who you are.

Choosing to change your life is not simple, because every choice implies a renunciation. In this case, you will have to give up the known to throw yourself into an abyss of doubt. But think on the other hand: Imagine all that can be there. A better job? A more companionable partner? A longer, healthier life? With the unknown comes the most interesting thing in life: surprises! You might find something fundamental that you didn’t even know you needed.

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