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Arnaldo Jabor’s brilliant text on relationships

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“I always think that dating, marriage, romance, has a beginning, a middle and an end. Like everything in life.

I hate it when I hear that conversation:
– Oh, I ended the relationship…
– Wow, they’ve been together for so long…
– Five years…. what a pity… it’s over…
– yeah… it didn’t work…

Of course it did! It worked for five years, but it ended. And the good thing about life is that you can have several loves.

I do not believe in people who complement each other. I believe in people who add up.
Sometimes you can’t even give one hundred percent of yourself to yourself, how can you charge one hundred percent from the other?
And we don’t have this whole thing.

Sometimes she is faithful, but she is slow in bed.
Sometimes he is affectionate, but not faithful.
Sometimes he is considerate, but he is not hardworking.
Sometimes she is very pretty, but she is not sensitive.
All together, we will not find.

Realize which aspect is most important to you and invest in it.

Skin is a treacherous beast. When you have skin with someone, it can be the most basic mom and dad that’s a delight.

And sometimes you have that acrobat sex, but it doesn’t impress you…
I think the kiss is important… and if the kiss hits… if it hits… if it doesn’t… another martini, please… and go for a walk.

If he or she doesn’t want you anymore, don’t push it. The other has the right not to want you.

Do not fight, do not care, do not get angry. If the person has doubts, their problem, it’s up to you to wait… or not.

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There are people who need absence to want presence.

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The human being is not absolute.

He hesitates, has doubts and fears, but if the person REALLY likes it, he comes back. No drama.
What fun is someone on your side under pressure?

The cool thing is someone who is with you, just for you. And vice versa. Don’t be with someone out of pity. Or out of fear of loneliness. We were born alone. We die alone.

Our thinking is ours, not shared. And when you wake up, the first impression is always yours, your look, your thought.

There are people who jump from one novel to another. What is this fear of being alone, in your own company?

Liking hurts. Many times you will feel anger, jealousy, hatred, frustration… It’s part of it. You live with another being, another world, another universe.

And things are not always as you would like them to be… The worst thing is people who are afraid to get involved.

If someone comes with this chat, run, after all you are not a therapist. If you don’t want to get involved, date a plant. It’s more predictable.

In life and in love, we have no guarantees.

Not every person who asks you out is to get married. Not every kiss is for romance.

And not all good sex is to be discarded… or falling in love with… or blamed for…

Anyway… who said being an adult is easy ????”

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ARNALDO JABOR

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