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9 Stories about life lessons that deserve respect

Raising a child is quite difficult work. Sometimes it is especially difficult to maintain self-control in order to correctly assess the situation and, despite intense emotions, find the strength to calmly talk with the child like an adult and clearly explain what is good and what is bad. After all, this is one of the main components of proper education.

We, from incredible.club, we admire it when parents find inspiring ways to communicate with their children. Therefore, we decided to tell you some of these stories. Check out!

Right before my eyes, a five-year-old broke a store mirror. His parents crouched down and started talking calmly with him, deciding how to resolve the situation. Mom suggested asking for a broom and sweeping. The child suggested that his father pay for the mirror and not buy the skates because of what happened. The sellers, and I, were dumbfounded watching this scene, and we didn’t interfere. It’s so simple, three people found the solution to the problem together, supported each other, and solved it. That’s how it should be ever🇧🇷 Such an attitude should be a habit, not cause for surprise. It is important not to overreact when a child falls. It is because of these reactions that children think that something terrible is happening. My niece’s parents, for example, never acted alarmingly when she fell. On the contrary, they taught her how to act when it happens and even did a mini-scene: When she fell, she’d come back and scream, “I’m fine!” with your arms up like a gymnast. We always looked to see if everything was really okay and we rarely needed to clean scratches or apply bandages and that’s why she never cried over something silly. © Ms_ChokelyCarmichael When I was a child, my parents allowed me to make many financial mistakes. Losses at that time, of course, were not very large, but the result was worth it. I am very grateful to them for this experience as I now have great financial control. © PuddinTater69
My uncle taught his baby daughter sign language so she could explain what she wanted even before she learned to speak. This trick made his life a lot easier, and whenever she cried, he could understand by gestures whether she wanted to eat, sleep or something else. © antipromaybe For a long time I felt like my sister’s shadow. All the professors were delighted with his academic skills and expected the same of me. Unintentionally, I put a lot of pressure on myself to be as good as her. And, realizing this, my mother told me: “Don’t compare yourself with your sister. You two are amazing, each in your own way.” It took a while, but I realized that I am a person with unique qualities, which also makes me a good person. © Onescoopofmayo When I was little, our neighbors were going through a tough divorce. This didn’t come as a big surprise to us because we often heard them fighting, screaming and almost tearing the house apart. One night I heard my parents discussing something intensely in the kitchen, so I ran over and gave them a hug and said, “I hope you never look like the neighbors.” My dad smiled and said, “We’re not yelling, we’re arguing. We’re not fighting, we just don’t agree and we’re looking for a happy medium.” I take this to life, and it helped me a lot to build harmonious relationships with people.
At school I had a friend who used to act dishonestly towards me; she abandoned me, preferring other people, but she always came back wanting to be my friend again. I complained many times about this to my mother. Until one day she ended our friendship forever. When I got home, I started crying and my mother told me a sentence that I still remember today: “Her life is like a bus. People come and go. Some stay forever. Some only stay for a short time. But sometimes there will be ones you have to kick off your bus.” © EvilAbdy The main piece of advice that formed what I am was when my father told me a very interesting phrase: “If you are not the worst musician in the band, find a better band”. In other words, get out of your comfort zone and try to find an environment in which you need to improve in order to survive. By doing this, you will learn to adapt perfectly and gain a lot of useful knowledge for life. One morning, when I was little, I quarreled with my mother over some silly things. We were silent all the way to school. But when we arrived, she waved goodbye and told me she loved me. I replied by saying that I hated her. And interestingly, my mother did not get mad and calmly said: “Don’t say that. What if I have an accident and we never meet again? I don’t think you want those to be your last words to me.” To this day I try not to say bad things when I fight with someone. You never know if it’s the last time you’ll see that person. © BagelMatt

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Bonus: what if no one came to your child’s birthday?

This happened to my little brother. Our mother personally distributed the invitation (he was 6, I was 17), and some parents assured us that their children would come to the party. However, no one showed up on the appointed day. My brother was terribly upset, our mother got angry and started calling everyone. I decided to call my friends and invite them to come and have fun and eat.

They all arrived within an hour, and we had a wonderful party! We jump on the trampoline; I taught my brother to play FIFA; he received a lot of gifts. And when we finally brought out the cake, singing “Happy Birthday!”, my brother hugged me and started crying and we blew out the candles together. He didn’t even think about all the guests who didn’t come and then he slept like a baby. © CocoAnnie

Have you ever witnessed a situation where a child’s parents behaved in a surprising way? Or is there any advice you got from your parents that you take with you for life? Tell us in the comments section.

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