9 Secrets Men Wish You Knew About Sex

When it comes to sex, not all the manuals in the world can explain everything that men and women like the most, but it doesn’t hurt to try. Watch out for nine little sex secrets they’d love for you to know.

1 – A little “aggressiveness” is welcome

Be careful, when talking about “aggressiveness”, the quotes must be taken seriously. Nobody really likes to hit or be spanked. In fact, men like sex a little rougher now and then. Subtle squeezes, light tugs of hair, among other things are enough to reach this category.

2 – Every man wants to taste anal sex

Okay, maybe not every man, but 99.99% of them do. Some don’t talk about it or imply it – maybe because they don’t feel they have that freedom, maybe because they’re afraid of the reaction of their companions – but, if you’re also curious, suggest the cat try anal sex and watch: he’ll probably jump of happiness.

You see: make sure you’re not doing it just to please him, you have to be really into it.

3 – Size really matters, for them

No, it’s not just a silly comparison to his friends’ penises. Guys, in fact, want to know if their penis is of a satisfactory size. Naturally, this is silly, since size does not always interfere with the pleasure provided to their partner, but for them, it is an important fact.

Therefore, whenever possible, praise your love’s performances, praising, among other things, the size of his “mate”.

4 – They like it when a woman feels comfortable with herself

There’s nothing more annoying than a woman who doesn’t accept herself. In bed, then, this factor gains much greater proportions. Being comfortable with your body means sex will feel much more natural. Women who care a lot about their best angles, among other things, make the moment less pleasant and too artificial.

5 – Men like compliments

It’s simple: you produced yourself and want to hear that “you look beautiful today”. Men too. Of course, the masculine nature is easier to praise, but it doesn’t hurt to give a guy’s ego a massage. A simple “you look good with that shirt” or “I love your perfume” will give you extra points with them.

6 – Messages with photos of you are welcome

Calm down, young lady, it doesn’t have to be sexy photos. The facilities offered by technology are incredible and he will love it if you casually send a fun or unpretentious photo of you to his cell phone.

You can be properly dressed, going to work or even watching TV and, best of all: it doesn’t have to be beautiful or produced, the idea is that the photo is just a way of saying “I was just here for nothing and I thought of you”. It’s just not worth filling his inbox with your poses all the time, because then the joke loses its fun.

7 – It’s nice to see you “drop off”

Although lingerie is really extremely sensual, men also know how to appreciate when the woman is “in any way”. You know that stay-at-home outfit? It has its charm, believe me. It gives an innocent air of “you weren’t supposed to see me like this” and can make all the difference in the male imagination.

8 – They need to feel wanted

Insecurity is not exclusive to women, men can also feel very insecure when it comes to sex. So when your partner hints that he wants to, signal back that you are too. The same goes for when you feel like it: take the initiative. Otherwise, he may think the problem is with him.

9 – All they want in bed is a confidant

Shyness in bed is synonymous with trouble. Expose your desires, have fun and don’t hesitate to propose new experiences. Men love to test different positions and situations, so don’t be shy. Show that, in addition to pleasure, you are there to share moments with a lot of fun.