7 Subtle Ways to Flirt With Someone (Without Looking Like an Idiot)

There’s a handsome guy at the drugstore checkout! But how do I talk to him?

A study was done on love at first sight and, believe it or not, the Walmart supermarket topped the list of places to meet people they want to flirt with.

So how can you take advantage of this trend and learn to meet new people? This list of tips on how to flirt will make you more approachable and increase your chances of interacting with someone without looking like an idiot.

1. Smile and make eye contact.

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I call these two actions “flirting basics” and they both make it easier for someone to approach you. As a single person, this is something you will definitely want to be more aware of.

The more approachable you are, the more someone has a chance to walk up to you and say hello. Furthermore, when you smile, you automatically become more attractive.

2. Be friendly.

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It is in this topic that you learn to increase your charm. If you’re a naturally outgoing person who easily interacts with people, why not experiment while shopping or walking the mall?

Being friendly and welcoming is like sharing your personal brand, creating memorable and positive interactions with people. The more people you meet, the greater your chances of finding the love of your life.

3. Look beyond what you’re doing.

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To become more approachable, be aware of your environment and the people around you. Every now and then, look beyond what you’re doing.

Many men have asked me why some women out shopping seem so hostile. It’s because they’re probably focused on shopping and getting out of the store as quickly as possible.

The solution? Take an extra five to 10 minutes to look around and connect with people.

4. Break the ice.

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Be brave and say something! It’s really nice to start a conversation every now and then. This is another way to make flirting easier. You can talk about anything from the store to the weather (even sounding cliché is a great way to start a topic).

5. Go where there is more movement

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To increase your chances of meeting someone, spend some time in the sections of the store where people tend to hang out the most. Try looking at CDs and DVDs, cell phones and electronics, or magazines and books. Even the product aisle can work.

The other big advantage about going somewhere with more traffic is that it’s easier to think of something to say; you can bring up a topic about the book you are looking at, for example.

6. Talk to the people in the checkout line.

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As you usually have to wait a while in the checkout line, make the most of this time. Comment on magazine covers or the items near the checkout. It doesn’t matter what you say. The idea is that you start a conversation casually.

7. Relax and keep practicing.

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The most important aspect of all this is to relax. Sometimes flirting and conversations are fun, but they don’t go beyond the door.

It’s okay because it’s all good practice. You’ll build your skills, confidence, and comfort level, which really helps you appear even more attractive to people. Who knew shopping could help your love life?

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