7 reasons why you can’t meet someone cool

Nowadays people seem to suffer more and more from the effects of loneliness. This feeling comes with the inability to find someone to share more intimacy with than just a fleeting encounter.

We decided to give it some thought and compiled seven reasons why we don’t share something more intense and profound with someone. Getting to know the other person is the way to start something harmonious and to be better with yourself.

Running over one relationship on the other never brings good feelings. It is important to spend time alone to understand who we are and what we want. Don’t start something with someone else just to prove to yourself (and your ex) that everything is okay. Take some time alone and understand what you really want.

While some women dream of a prince charming, some men dream of the perfect woman, the ones we see on magazine covers. In real life things are a little different. Before thinking about others, think about who you are. What can you offer someone else in a relationship? Are you okay? And yet: will the other person be okay with you? Before looking for someone with certain qualities, stop and think if you are capable of offering what you are looking for.

Do not waste time. Of course, things are happening in our lives and we can’t always control our feelings, but some problems we can avoid. Don’t think that the husband or wife of the person you want is guilty of something, maybe they just got there first. Don’t do what you wouldn’t want done to you.

“People are all the same.” You must have heard this from someone. Well, there is something true in that statement, and we don’t always need to trust everyone, especially when we’ve been deceived. But that doesn’t mean we should arrive with stones in our hands and expect the worst from others. A new suitor is not to blame for what an ex may have done to you. Observe and feel the other person before judging them.

Mistrust of real feelings, the unconscious fear that we will lose our personal space and the fear of dependence are invisible walls that block new loves. How to change it? There is no secret formula. Take care of yourself, be true and expect the same from the other person. Don’t think that everything has a downside. That way it will always show up. Be true and the truth will guide you in a good way.

The exaggerated behavior of a peacock showing its beautiful feathers only works in the animal world. People like that don’t get anything good in return. Don’t try to please the other person at any cost. Don’t wear an outfit that doesn’t suit you and don’t try to be someone you’re not. Let the other person fall in love calmly. Always show the truth.

Nowadays we hear a lot about women’s biological clock and the desire to have children at any cost from a certain age. This causes despair to take over the conquest, provoking artificial attitudes. Of course, we must always be honest with our wishes, but don’t run, don’t show haste, take it easy and let things happen naturally. Pressure is not good for a relationship, and no one likes to be with someone who is desperate.