15 Signs Your Ex Won’t Get Over You (and Might Never)

Breakups are never easy.

Whether you’re the one who dumped him, or he’s the one who started the breakup, it hurts.

And for a long time, it will hurt.

And after a breakup, we usually make the other believe that we’re over it, right?

However, if you see your ex, would you let him know that you miss him?

Of course not!

Well, he probably feels the same.

Surely he wants you to believe that he has forgotten you and that he has turned the page.

So how can you tell if he’s really over you or not?

After all, it can be hard for you to turn the page if you don’t know for sure.

And it is known that our emotions cannot change from one day to the next.

You will wonder how can you know if your ex boyfriend has not forgotten you?

Or, what should you do about it?

Here I will share the definitive signs to be able to identify it easily.

15 Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Isn’t Over You

1) Keep in touch

During the breakup, many say:

“we’ll just be friends.”

But we all know that it is a difficult thing to achieve.

This is a phrase used to soften the blow.

That is, make it easier for the other party.

So if your ex boyfriend makes an effort to keep in touch, wake up!

This is a clear sign that he is not ready to let you go just yet.

If he was sure of the decision to break up, he would have cut all ties with you.

He would just move on with his life.

But if he is the one texting or calling you, he may have some questions. It is clear that he keeps the communication open while he works out his feelings.

Pay attention to their attitudes. For example:

Every time he thinks of you, does he immediately text you?

Does he go through the communication you’ve had since you broke up and tell you?

Is he always the one to come over and start the conversation?

If so, you are not ready to let it go.

He doesn’t want you to forget it and move on.

He is a man who is definitely not over you.

2) His new girlfriend has many similarities with you

Starting a new relationship is a way of letting the other know that you have forgotten him.

Although, this can reveal more about one’s true feelings towards an ex.

If your ex has a new partner and you have doubts, you can investigate about it.

Or, just ask mutual friends what they think of it.

Does this new girlfriend look like you?

Do your friends confirm that there are too many similarities between you and her?

If so, this is a good sign that your ex is not over you.

In fact, he is trying to find solace and win back what he has lost with you.

Have you seen the TV series Friends?

Then you will understand exactly what I am talking about here.

Remember that episode where Rachel broke up with Ross.

And then she just rebounded to start dating… Russ.

This is a man who is not over you yet.

3) He asks you questions

If you both still move in the same social circle, chances are you’ll run into each other.

When this happens, pay attention to the questions he asks you.

Does he always seem interested in knowing exactly what’s going on in your life?

For example, you could ask:

Do you go out with someone? Who are you going out with? Where have you been lately? How have you spent your time?

All these questions are aimed at knowing if you are dating someone new.

If your ex was over you, he wouldn’t care about your personal life.

And much less what you do every day.

He wouldn’t care if you’ve moved on with someone new or not.

He asks you because he wants to know if he still has a chance with you.

He knows that as long as you’re free, he’ll still have the door open to a relationship.

4) He looks at you often

This is a clear signal to know if the other person likes you or not.

The eyes are truly a window to the soul.

If you see a guy looking at you from across the room, he’s interested. He just can’t take his eyes off you.

Have you noticed that your ex does it when you go out with mutual friends?

Then it is sure that it is difficult for him to forget about you and move on.

No doubt, he is thinking about the good times they had together.

And possibly wondering what it would feel like to fall in love again.

Now, if you are also thinking that going back with your ex is a good idea, the most important thing is that they do not repeat the same mistakes and repeat the same routine. That can only end as it began. Evil.

The only option is to make both of them forget everything bad about the relationship and leave it behind. May he long for the good things they shared.

There is a new method created by Samantha Sanders, a relationship coach, where she teaches you to enter your ex’s subconscious to make him accept his mistakes.

Once you apply it, you’ll get him to stop sending you mixed signals and come back knowing he can’t let you go anymore.

If you want to attract him back and ignite the spark that used to be between you, watch this video to learn the secrets and techniques that will make him come back.

What you will achieve will not be repeating the same relationship they had, but creating a new, much stronger and deeper bond.

Here is the link to the video once again.

5) He looks for you on social networks

It is entirely your decision to remain friends with your ex on social media or not.

But this type of contact makes it difficult to walk away from each other after a breakup.

It is certain that, through mutual friends, they will continue to find out about their lives.

Since you can see their social networks whenever you want. And he will be able to see yours.

Think about what he’s been posting since you broke up. Is it all about you?

It is not necessary for him to mention your name for him to publish something from his past in common.

It can be a quote, a poem, or anything else that alludes to your time together.

Or even just question a failed relationship.

Surely, he expects you to see his messages and take the hint.

Also, it might look for some of your friends on social networks.

In this way, he can probably get more information about you.

If you do these things, your intentions are very clear.

He’s an ex who’s in no shape to move on and he wants you to know it.

6) Ask for you

Keeping distance after the breakup avoids awkward or painful social encounters.

If you have chosen to bridge the gap, it is because you want to prevent him from suffering.

But that doesn’t mean he won’t keep asking questions to find out about you.

Instead of asking you, he will go to his friends and get information from them.

She may seem sweet and innocent wanting to know how you are doing.

But this is a good indication that he still has feelings for you.

There is no other reason for you to be on his mind.

Despite not seeing you, this man keeps pining for you

And secretly hope that you are going through it too.

7) He has left things in your house

This is one of those classic movements of the ex who does not want to turn the page.

In fact, any excuse is good to see you and be present in your life.

Let’s face it, this strategy is very obvious.

Because when you break up with someone, you make sure to clean up right away.

This way you can get out of each other’s lives as soon as possible and avoid painful departures.

Of course, things can and are left.

The easiest thing is to drop it at the door and pick it up without bumping into each other.

But this changes if your ex is not in a rush to make plans to pick up his things.

Or is trying to organize to meet with you to do the exchange.

When this happens, your ex is not over him.

Leaving things at your house is the perfect way for him to hold on to you.

That way they will always have a pretext to keep in touch with you.

Clearly, he’s not ready to seal the deal and end their relationship.

8) He clings to your gifts

Some gifts are so amazing that they have to be kept after the breakup.

For example, an Xbox you bought him or a very nice bag he bought you.

Others have sentimental value and must be thrown away once the relationship is over.

For example, his shirt that he left at your house that you loved to wear.

Or the playlist you created just for him with your favorite songs.

If he’s still holding on to his sentimental gifts, it’s because he’s not over you.

Not even a little. The relationship means too much to him and she can’t let it go.

9) He is always willing to help

As a boyfriend, you would have expected him to be there on moving day.

You would have appreciated me walking you home at night.

You would have appreciated his help around the house.

As an ex, all these things should stop being done.

If you need me to help you move, ask other friends.

But the number one rule is not to go to the ex.

But what if he gets close to you?

What if he finds out from other friends that you need help and shows up to help? Are you being nice?

Sure, but it’s so much more than that. He wants you to feel good with him.

After all, this is how you feel when someone goes out of their way to help you.

He’s not looking to get back with you directly (at least not yet).

But you want to stay fresh in your mind and you don’t want to close that door.

He definitely hasn’t gotten over you yet.

He is going out of his way to make sure that you have positive feelings towards him.

10) You keep running into him

Despite your best efforts, does it seem like you keep running into your ex?

This may not be as casual as you thought.

There is a possibility that your ex is doing it on purpose.

It seems like it always appears where you are.

Whether you’re out with friends or heading to an event, he’ll know where you’ll be.

As?

He has investigated with his friends and social networks to find out.

He wants to be close to you and is not willing to leave your life.

You may also want to check that you haven’t moved on.

Or that he is jealous and wants to know that you are not seeing another boy.

11) The old tale of drunkards

When we drink a little too much, we lose all control.

Above all, many of our words and actions seem to be too much.

Are you still the person he calls at 4am after one too many drinks?

It’s because his subconscious knows that he’s not over you.

He may even still have feelings for you that he is trying to hide.

The best thing you can do is ignore that call.

After all, you don’t want to be the ex who cleans up all their messes.

That is no longer your problem.

You can send him a text the next morning for him to reflect on.

So you can get on with your life and forget about it.

Even if your guy isn’t over his, that shouldn’t stop you from moving on.

12) You are receiving mixed signals

Is your ex being demanding and then cold with you?

Sometimes he calls you and sends you as many messages as possible.

The next moment he’s freezing you up and ignoring you every time he sees you in public.

Or worse, he leaves you in seen in the conversations he started.

It is sure that this can be quite confusing for you.

But don’t worry, I can assure you that, in this case, it’s not you, it’s him.

He is still understanding his feelings for you after the break up.

He wants to forget about you, but it’s clear he doesn’t.

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