Many say they are different. Few are willing to try.

Actions speak louder than words. A woman won’t believe you just because you say you’re different from all the other guys, you need to show her that. And not just once, but consistently over time.

Trust doesn’t come overnight, it must be earned and cultivated.

Given the current state of the relationship and the level of effort many men put into it, here are a few things you can do. to show your wife—whether wife or girlfriend—that you take her seriously.

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1. Pay attention to details.

I usually talk a lot about this subject here on the site, because it is as important as it is forgotten. We men are known for forgetting small details (which is why we are always the butt of jokes on social media and TV commercials about forgetting a birthday or an important date).

We often get a bad rap for listening selectively or simply not caring about what it really is.

If you want to show your woman that you’re really paying attention to her, make an effort to actively listen to her. Pay attention, ask questions, remember the details.

Ask her how that friend who was sick last week is doing. Buy that candy she said she likes on her way home from work. Watch when she fixes her hair or buys a new outfit. The little things make the difference.

2. Have good manners.

Is it just me or is there a lack of conscience in the world these days? We have seen less and less “thank you very much”. Fewer people holding doors for each other, or stopping at crosswalks, or just exchanging a friendly smile.

We all seem to be turning inward and feeling more entitled to treatment for which we should be grateful. A healthy display of manners will help you earn (and give) respect — as well as attraction.

No good woman is attracted to a bad man.

3. Be honest from the start.

Honesty is important because it requires patience and consistent effort, my dear. You can be completely honest with her, but you also need to take the time to show her that you mean it.

A man’s charm can only win over a woman… it’s his integrity, sincerity and consistency that keeps her with him.

4. Stop trying to sell yourself to her.

I’ve heard many stories of first dates with a guy that felt more like a sales pitch. Whether it’s bragging about his accomplishments, how much money he makes, or naming names of people he spends time with—talking about these things will just bore her, because she’s heard it from a lot of guys.

If a woman has agreed to go on a date and spend time with you, you already know she is interested. Be nice, be natural, learn about her. You’re not in a job interview, let it flow.

5. Be a gentleman (this still matters a lot).

This includes offering to pick her up from the date (and understanding if she prefers to meet you there), clean her car, open the door, pull out her chair, and yes, pay for the date (if she accepts).

This all sounds like common sense and cliché… until you actually talk to women and hear how rare this is in 2021.

The good news is, it’s become easier to stand out from other men, allowing your actions to show her that you respect and value her, which is the essence of chivalry.

6. Call her.

Now that you’ve won her heart, go to “Contacts”, find her name and instead of clicking the little “chat on Whatsapp” button, click the green “call” button. This may come as a surprise, but your cell phone makes calls too!

Sure, texting is faster, easier, and a more common mode of communication — but when it comes to important matters, like asking a woman out on a date or discussing important matters or plans, a phone call is the right approach.

Call her and ask her how her day was, say you missed hearing her voice and “why yes”.

7. Focus on what is truly valuable.

The woman in your life isn’t going to want your car, your money, or your gifts. While gifts can be a good way to show her affection, what she really wants is it’s your time, your effort, your honesty, your loyalty and your respect.

These are the things that really matter in a relationship and in life.

Knowing what is valuable (to her) also allows you to add value and contribute to her life. How can you make her life easier without her having to ask?

Can you do something for her, take care of the kids/pets or help her in a time of need?

These are the things that make a relationship stronger and show her that you’re willing to step up and step in when she needs you (and even when she doesn’t).

8. Always be working to improve yourself.

To find the right woman, we must first become the right man. You don’t attract what you want, you attract what you project.

That’s why it’s important to show genuine intentions and authenticity from the start, because this will serve as a beacon for those who are similar to you and allow a connection to form.

Ambition, motivation and goals for the future are essential qualities of a man with whom a woman is considering building a serious relationship.

9. Be proud of how you present yourself.

Whether it’s how you dress or how you speak, understand the importance of a first impression and how you get noticed.

No, that doesn’t mean living your life on other people’s terms or always seeking their validation.

What it means is understanding the importance of making a good impression when meeting a woman. A man who is proud of who he is and how he presents himself shows that he respects himself and others enough to put in the effort.

Speak clearly and intently. Try harder than a t-shirt and shorts for a date. Work, enjoy the rewards.

10. Accept rejection if it happens.

This one can be a little confusing, but it’s perhaps one of the most important points of all. A real test of a man’s character is not how he acts when things are going his way, but how he acts when things aren’t. When he is rejected, let down, hurt, or feels slighted.

One of the most prominent complaints I hear from women these days is about how men lash out, get angry and become abusive when rejected.

Any man who lashes out when he’s rejected by a woman is sending the message that when he looks in the mirror, he’s not happy with what he sees. Your fulfillment and self-worth are not based on yourself as you should be, but on the acceptance of the opposite sex.

When he feels his worth is challenged, he becomes excessively defensive.

A man who is really sure of himself will understand that sometimes things just don’t work out. Not every woman will want to be with him, and that’s okay—because he’s happy just the same.

He understands that the right woman will improve his life and be an important part of it, but he is still complete regardless of his relationship status.

A good man is respectful and kind, but not just to women—to everyone. He maintains a lifestyle that is good for everyone and inspires others to embrace his values ​​through his positive actions.

He is good to others, not because of who they are—but because of who he is.

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