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10 things men forget to do during sex

Sex should be an act of pleasure for both parties involved. It wouldn’t be fair for a woman, for example, to dress in sexy new lingerie if her partner didn’t make any effort to please her at the right time!

And it’s not that they mean it, but the truth is that, sometimes, men fall short in bed, precisely because they are in a hurry to satisfy their needs and forget to meet their partner’s wishes.

Sexologist Walkíria Fernandes highlights that, among the most frequent female complaints regarding the behavior of men during sex, are: the rush to make penetration, the fact of asking the partner to perform oral sex without having first taken a shower, wanting to sex on an almost daily basis and the lack of foreplay. Not necessarily in that order.

Regarding the last item, she adds: “it is through foreplay that we begin to disconnect from the external world and surrender to the moment of sex. Relaxation and surrender begin to occur, starting the arousal process. Often when sexual desire is not very intense, it can increase as foreplay takes place. In other situations it may not even increase. However, it is with foreplay that the woman prepares for penetration, which should not, therefore, happen right at the beginning of sexual intercourse”, explains Walkíria.

In addition to these extremely important points, below you can see 10 other things that many men forget to do during sex:

1. Play with the clitoris. He’s right there, not down, not to the side… It’s important to focus on him!

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2. Take off your socks. Man is sexy when he’s naked, and without socks!

3. Lubricate. Women need to feel very wet to successfully (and enjoy) perform the act. That’s why you need less rush, and get to work!

4. Speak. Women are even more turned on when they use their imagination at the H moment. So, a little talk about slutty, of course, will have a great effect!

5. Keep your tongue wet. It is essential to keep her wet with saliva during oral sex.

6. Take care of your hands. Unless a woman makes it clear that she loves it when her partner squeezes her breasts hard, touching them should be gentle, at least, no pinching.

7. Kiss lightly. Sometimes a light touch is better than a hard one. And a sweet kiss, with just the lips, is more pleasant than a very fast-paced kiss with excessive use of the tongue.

8. Nibble. Most women love a little nibble and a gentle suck on their fingers or toes.

9. Let go of worries. You have to smile a little, show pleasure and concentration (only) in what you are doing.

10. Take care of your teeth. No exaggerated bites, especially on the breasts, which are totally sensitive. But of course, hands and mouth are welcome and you can go over the nipples gently before going down.

So today’s tips go to them! It is essential to pay attention to the partner’s needs and do everything to make sex really pleasurable for both parties.

The importance of dialogue

Sexologist Walkíria also leaves a message for women, especially those who have been bothered by some of these failures (or forgetfulness) of their partner. “Whenever something doesn’t go well in the affective marital or sexual relationship, it’s important to have a dialogue”, she says.

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“When the dissatisfaction is sexual, obviously, the dialogue must take place outside the moment of sex. It is necessary to have the sensitivity and concern to say what you want, with respect to the other, without aggression or rudeness”, explains Walkíria. “The way you speak is often more important than what you say”, concludes the sexologist.

Tais Romanelli

Journalist graduated in 2009 (58808/SP), freelance writer since 2013, totally adept at working from home. Communicative, always full of topics to talk about and inspiration to write. Responsible at work and outside of it; dedicated to commitments and the people with whom she lives; in love with family, dogs, home, the sea, moments of tranquility and also excitement.

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